GirlontheLam Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 So I while back I posted this thread. I forgot to update. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/353954-so-whats-my-next-move Here is the situation. Security guy in my building (who is attractive) was seriously flirting. Anyway I was pondering being agressive and giving him my number. Anyway...I didn't (I ended up getting busy and not going to the office for a bit...so basically I didn't have a window to give it to him). As I now know, this was probably a good thing. He initiated a chat with me. As usual. We were chatting about the holiday shopping. And he mentioned his girlfriend is out of the country for the next 2 months or so. I made a joke about sending hints to his girlfriend about his wishlist and went to work. So of course I am puzzled about the aggressive flirting (see thread for details). As a fellow flirt, I definitely get into a little friendly banter with people. But there are some limits too, if I am not flirting with intent. Nowadays every time I go by he has something to tell me. Each and every time. Either a story about what happened to him earlier. Some movie I should see. A song I should listen too. Etc. It is like I am the surrogate girlfriend to talk about his day with. [FYI: he does chat with other people in the building. They get generic topics. I get personal ones. His divorce. Ex wife. BFFs from childhood. Life story.] I feel guilty and I am not doing anything!
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