jwhite Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 (edited) Ok, so I was feeling as good as I can be about accepting that it is over and she is gone. The week we broke up, she packed up all my stuff and I told her that I was going to get it the next day and drop off her key. I picked all that I thought would be of use and left the crap that I didnt care about and the stuff that I didnt want reminding me of anything. I left the key with a note that basically said I will always love you and do not contact me unless you want to get to know me again or you cant take life anymore. What else could I say? I have blocked all avenues, phone, deactived FB, and remained NC since that day--1 month ago yesterday was BU. So, today she stopped by my house while I was here and dropped a box off with the stuff that I left and didnt care about. She didnt knock or anything. I thought that I made it clear that I didnt want that stuff by leaving it. The items were old shoes, couple of crappy belts, some sh-tty clothes my mom gave her, a couple of pictures of me, unmatching socks, and a current burgerking coupon book exp 12/31...she always gave those to me. Why in the HELL did she come by to drop that crap off? I was doing so good too. Edited November 27, 2012 by jwhite
Author jwhite Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 OR Could she be ready to go public with a new relationship and this is her way to make her feel better about it?
geegirl Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 She packed all your things and you took some of it. She's just giving it all back to you again. Don't read into things that carry no meaning and even if it did, you'll never know why she was being petty. Move on.
Author jwhite Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 She packed all your things and you took some of it. She's just giving it all back to you again. Don't read into things that carry no meaning and even if it did, you'll never know why she was being petty. Move on. It's almost like she was throwing it in my face
geegirl Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 It's almost like she was throwing it in my face Yes, it seems like it. In any case, it's a sign that she's done. It was stuff she had packed initially so it seems she wanted it all gone.
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