wheream_i Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Just saw this gem on Facebook. "If a man expects his woman to be an angel in his life, then he should first create Heaven for her". Give me a f*cking break. How ridiculous does it have to get? It's one of those stupid quotes that gets posted along with Marilyn Monroe quotes, as if she's their life coach and a genius on the male gender. It was also posted by a girl with two kids by two different dads, single yet again after a messy breakup drawn out online. Mid-20's. Is this really what women expect? Put up with your crap, your baggage and do what you can to make me happy? Jeez, grow up already. There's got to be better options out there. 2
ThaWholigan Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 There are. Boundaries are an awesome thing. As are women who don't have facebook 2
KatZee Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Maybe you're reading into it the wrong way. I don't think that quote comes with the addendum: And as you create my heaven you will have to put up with any and all s.hit I bring your way, I will treat you however I like... blah blah blah. I think it makes sense. Guy= Give woman a reason to be with you. Create her own personal heaven. Which to me represents love, trust, respect, communication. That would be my heaven. Give me that and I'll absolutely be your angel. 2
Author wheream_i Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 There are. Boundaries are an awesome thing. As are women who don't have facebook What do boundaries have to do with this? Not sure I follow you. Are you referring to her airing her sh*t out on FB for all the world to see? If you don't do that on a daily basis, then what good is FB? With or without it, just the fact that quotes and feelings like that seem to be accepted.
Author wheream_i Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 Maybe you're reading into it the wrong way. I don't think that quote comes with the addendum: And as you create my heaven you will have to put up with any and all s.hit I bring your way, I will treat you however I like... blah blah blah. I think it makes sense. Guy= Give woman a reason to be with you. Create her own personal heaven. Which to me represents love, trust, respect, communication. That would be my heaven. Give me that and I'll absolutely be your angel. Now that you've explained that, now define "angel".
Oxy Moronovich Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Just saw this gem on Facebook. "If a man expects his woman to be an angel in his life, then he should first create Heaven for her". Give me a f*cking break. How ridiculous does it have to get? It's one of those stupid quotes that gets posted along with Marilyn Monroe quotes, as if she's their life coach and a genius on the male gender. It was also posted by a girl with two kids by two different dads, single yet again after a messy breakup drawn out online. Mid-20's. Is this really what women expect? Put up with your crap, your baggage and do what you can to make me happy? Jeez, grow up already. There's got to be better options out there. Yeah, women like to say a lot of dumbass quotes regarding relationships. Why bother worrying about it though? 1
Author wheream_i Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 Maybe you're reading into it the wrong way. I don't think that quote comes with the addendum: And as you create my heaven you will have to put up with any and all s.hit I bring your way, I will treat you however I like... blah blah blah. Actually, that's exactly the way I'm interpreting it. So I guess I'm the problem, lol. On top of that, she'll still find a reason to be unhappy.
Drseussgrrl Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 First of all, Marilyn Monroe is a HORRIBLE woman to emulate. And secondly, I knew people like that on Facebook who demanded men treat them a certain way while trailing baggage a mile long behind them. Really annoying (and all very public). But they didn't change the way I view relationships. I just knew that I won't end up with the type of guy who would date THEM. 1
Author wheream_i Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 Yeah, women like to say a lot of dumbass quotes regarding relationships. Why bother worrying about it though? Egh, I don't so much worry about it as just shake my head about it. Especially when every other female that reads it, follows up with a post agreeing with it.
Drseussgrrl Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 And another reason I don't have Facebook.
KatZee Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Now that you've explained that, now define "angel". Loving, supportive, LOYAL, caring, an equal partner in the relationship, a giver, a compromiser.
KatZee Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Actually, that's exactly the way I'm interpreting it. So I guess I'm the problem, lol. On top of that, she'll still find a reason to be unhappy. Well then it's obvious you're not ready to date, and if you're dating someone who has perpetual reason to nag and be a downer and unhappy, you're choosing the wrong people! People like this are exhausting. My ex was this way. Nothing I did was good enough. I was always a problem. The way I acted, how I lived my life. Forget all the hundreds of things I did for him if there was ONE thing in that list of hundreds that he didn't like, he'd harp on that ONE thing and completely disregard the rest. I DETEST negative, unappreciative people. That's why there is no room for them in my life.
Author wheream_i Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 First of all, Marilyn Monroe is a HORRIBLE woman to emulate. And secondly, I knew people like that on Facebook who demanded men treat them a certain way while trailing baggage a mile long behind them. Really annoying (and all very public). But they didn't change the way I view relationships. I just knew that I won't end up with the type of guy who would date THEM. Based on this post alone, I would totally date you, Dr. Seuss girl. Smart person you are. Especially with that last sentence.
Author wheream_i Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 Well then it's obvious you're not ready to date, and if you're dating someone who has perpetual reason to nag and be a downer and unhappy, you're choosing the wrong people! People like this are exhausting. My ex was this way. Nothing I did was good enough. I was always a problem. The way I acted, how I lived my life. Forget all the hundreds of things I did for him if there was ONE thing in that list of hundreds that he didn't like, he'd harp on that ONE thing and completely disregard the rest. I DETEST negative, unappreciative people. That's why there is no room for them in my life. Has nothing to do with me being being ready to date or not. For the record, I am not dating. I also know what I don't want. I don't put up with nags, downers, etc.
todreaminblue Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Just saw this gem on Facebook. "If a man expects his woman to be an angel in his life, then he should first create Heaven for her". Give me a f*cking break. How ridiculous does it have to get? It's one of those stupid quotes that gets posted along with Marilyn Monroe quotes, as if she's their life coach and a genius on the male gender. It was also posted by a girl with two kids by two different dads, single yet again after a messy breakup drawn out online. Mid-20's. Is this really what women expect? Put up with your crap, your baggage and do what you can to make me happy? Jeez, grow up already. There's got to be better options out there. I think haven(drop the E) or sanctuary would be a better word, if a man creates a home filled with love truth respect(what another poster said) and compassion understanding and protection(that one is big for me , i get tired of fighting battles by myself, back up is cool,) i am no angel, my mum likes to think i am as all mothers do....but i will never be an angel, if a guy would accept me for who i am and treat me with all of the above, he would not want to be with someone else, because i would give exactly what i get back plus gourmet cooking who would want to leave a haven....im in the trenches at the moment with my baggage.....and my cookbooks.....and hope......that some guys still know how to "help" maintain sanctuaries and believe they shoudl exist as homes for families until heaven becomes reality......deb
MrCastle Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Still waiting to be sold on this "relationship" thing. Pros: -deep emotional connection with someone Cons: -petty fights -compromising your stances on certain things to have a fair and balanced relationship -less free time -less time with your friends -potential bouts of jealousy -potential for a messy, gut wrenching break up that can effect you for years or months to come 1
ooglesnboogles Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Not trying to sell you, but from my experience.. If you ever find a woman who qualifies as your best friend, every single one of your cons evaporates. Including the messy break-up. It will hurt, but it won't be messy or effect you years to come. You're 25 and still very much in your playboy phase, and ideally you will be that way until you're ready. No sense in even considering a relationship until it's something you want. I reached for the [Reply with Quote] button but I see you've already said what I was gonna say
MrCastle Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Not trying to sell you, but from my experience.. If you ever find a woman who qualifies as your best friend, every single one of your cons evaporates. Including the messy break-up. It will hurt, but it won't be messy or effect you years to come. You're 25 and still very much in your playboy phase, and ideally you will be that way until you're ready. No sense in even considering a relationship until it's something you want. *scratches chin* Hmmm
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