pink_sugar Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 My mom has a tendency to get really emotionally involved when she feels someone has wronged her. She's always been this way. She was abusive when I was a kid, she stopped the abuse...but she can be emotionally abusive when she feels I am wrong and won't apologize to her. She usually sends really long, angry text messages. She's also always told me I won't be able to find someone better when I say I don't feel happy in my marriage. She has a really bad relationship and likes to compare others to hers and say "I don't feel for you, look what I have to go through". She's put up with emotional and physical abuse from a relationship of 20 years...and has even admitted disregarding her kids for it. Her and my stepdad stayed over close to 6 days in our small one bedroom apartment, which was probably a bad idea. Next time, IF there's a next time, I'm going to have to impose a 3 day rule, because after 4 or 5 days, everyone starts to get on each others nerves. She's saying we're all idiots for not listening to her about our issues and being really childish and immature about it.
BklynGuy Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 I know how you feel. My mom was physically abusive to me as a kid & is now verbally abusive. The thing is I'm unemployed & can't move out. She has also scuttled a few career opportunities for me. Living with family especially as you get older isn't a good idea. 2
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