GM4587 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 I'm terrible at social stuff so hoping someone can help me out. Until recently I thought when a girl was busy it meant she was busy not I don't want to see you anymore. I dated this girl a few months back, she really liked me, I had a family matter that left me in a bad state. Made the mistake of sending her two desperate/needy texts then chasing when things started to fall apart. Finally stopped, didn't contact her for months, tried again but I got the short straight to point answers. I asked her to meet up...she said she was busy with school. So I send a text basically talking about my behavior, why I acted like I did, and if we could start over. She responded with a nice genuine text, but included that she is seeing someone else right now and would probably not be a good idea to hang out. Now I'd take this as she's seeing someone else normally but that I'm on good ground with her again...but since she told me just last week she was busy and didn't use that she was seeing someone, is she just trying to find a nice way to cut all contact? Should I respond somehow? Like Hope we can be friends, gl and thanks for your message?
Lobouspo Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Maintain your dignity and erase her contact info and move on....She's actually blowing you office in an honorable way and not being a classless bit$& about it.
vanek26 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 She turned the page on you a long time ago. Don't blame yourself though, there's nothing you could have done differently. Women are just incredibly flippant. Like the other guy said, resist the urge to send her a text and just delete the number and move on. Saying anything else to her will only make you look pathetic.
todreaminblue Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 She could be telling you the truth and she told you this possible truth because of the text you sent in regards to apologizing for your behavior, before that, you were getting short texts that were to the point,she didnt want to lead you on..... do you honestly think you can just be her friend and handle conversations with her talking about her new boyfriend if she has one? Or see her with her arms around someone other than you?......if you truly think you can send the friend text otherwise let her go..in my opinion the warmth of her text and the fact you regard it genuine, reflects honesty on her behalf .. i hope you find that someone special to have in your future....best wishes....deb
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