joel Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 first off if i date the gal my first prority be school b/c my folks are paying for it and if i don;t at least pass they gonna b**** at me all day long. i don;t think my dad even wants me to date, focus on ur school is what i heard him say before but not relevant to dating. what do i do if i can take her out one time to movie and then coffee but can't do this every week b/c folks are strict about leaving the house they want me to study-like all day. also i don;t have a job looking for one-sending out resumes, but no job so i only have a limted amount of money. what do i do then. is it ok to date her once-take her to movie and coffee-get to now her and if i like her and she likes me then not take her out anymore just talk to her at school since i have little cash and parents are strict about leaving the house-especially on sat and sun since dad is home. also my folks make a big fuss if me or any of my siblings go out at night-after -6pm so what do i do maybe just do an afternoon date then. i have every fridays off. if my folks find out about her and they don;t like her-then i have to end it since they are controlling freaks so dictatorship. i am 23 yr old male. my parents did this to my sis when she was dating a guy they didn't like b/c he had a low status job-they harassed her constantly everyday about it-break it up
disconcertainly Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 BE A MAN......Yes respect your parents but there will come a time when you need to make your own choices. Your parents are crossing the bored line in my opioion. You serious need to consider if you want to contiune to let them dictate your life. Do they believe in arranged marriage? lol jk But get out there have fun while you are young!!!!
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