Treasa Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 He keeps emailing me or occasionally calling me to tell me he misses me or loves me or wants to spend the rest of his life with me. But his actions aren't measuring up. After telling him yesterday that I didn't want to try anymore, he continued on with the same. Finally today I sent him this: "I really don't think you're interested in having me on anything except your own terms. And I'm too good for that. Let me know if you're willing to do more than that. But I'm not going to wait around, and neither should you. Good luck, and I'll always care about you no matter what you decide. Honestly though, if you let me go, you're an idiot." I know, I already let HIM go. But this is the last time I'm emailing him before I tell him to just F off and stop contacting me. I would give him another chance if he actually treated me well, but I don't think that will ever happen. I don't need any advice. I'm just proud of myself, because I've never dumped a guy and stuck to my guns despite him throwing breadcrumbs my way.
Author Treasa Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 Oh, and he just wrote me back: "you only want things on your terms too now youre getting insulting, which is harsh when im only trying to be honest." People, this is called GASLIGHTING. Don't fall for it. I'm not going to. The ex-idiot of mine didn't write anything that warrants further response from me. I hope he has good luck finding someone half as good as me. Stupid twit.
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