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The things we plan to say to our Ex's if contacted in the future!

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itsmyfault Established Member

itsmyfault

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Does anyone else do this?

 

Like just randomly have a conversation with yourself planning what you will say to an ex if they contact you in 2, 3 4, 12 months time?

 

I was thinking about this today, I've not spoke to her for a while, I told her I don't want to while I get me back and "**** her off" out of my life.

 

For some reason though part of me thinks she will contact me (maybe cause i know she wants a friendship) Maybe part of me wants her to, Not because i want her back, More so I can tell her I'm moving on without her in my life and I plan to keep it that way.

 

I want this to happen so I know this girl no longer means anything to me.

 

As you can probably see, I'm not hurting anymore, I have no **** to give about the whole thing anymore, it's awesome, I'm so glad I'm Finally at the place I wanted to be.

 

NC ROCKS!!!!!

KatZee Established Member

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Oh yes, I've done this many, many a time. I regret not saying certain things to him.

 

If he ever came back and was like, "I made a mistake and miss you" I'd be like...

 

You MISS me? YOU MISS ME?! Were you missing me or giving a s.hit about me when you decided to leave me for little miss whorebag at your new job? (I'm sure she's not a whorebag and it's over with that girl but I need the point to get across lol).

 

You once made a reference that you were the "only one on my side." Were you "on my side" when you decided to cheat on me with the girl who was causing all the problems with us? Were you "on my side" when you allowed your friends to talk s.hit about me and disrespect me? Were you "on my side" when I told you things people were saying and you did nothing but laugh?

 

You're a joke, there is something fundamentally wrong with you. You don't miss me, you're just scared to be alone. You're a broken little person and you need someone to feed your ego. You don't love me and I don't believe you ever DID love me. The only thing you've ever given a crap about is yourself.

 

I would have to be the biggest jerkoff on the planet to ever be with you again ! And I never will be with you again. You miss me? Too bad, so sad. You're not a man to me, just a little boy. Nothing about you is what I am looking for in a partner and future husband. You're a coward, you don't know how to communicate, you're a liar and a fraud and I stopped believing anything that comes out of your mouth months ago.

 

Don't come around acting like you care about me! People don't ruin those they claim to love!

 

*door slam*

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movingon12 Established Member

movingon12

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"Sorry, what's your name again?"

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itsmyfault Established Member

itsmyfault

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This thread has some awesome potential already, I like it!

KatZee Established Member

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Just to point out, my ex didn't ruin me. In fact just the opposite. I'm someone so much greater than I ever was with him. The best gift he ever gave me was dumping me, honestly.

 

However, I saw a great quote photo and it said those things I mentioned throughout. "You just wanted someone to feed your ego" "scared to be alone" "You don't ruin those you claim to love." I think it was a powerful image and totally the reason why my ex was with me in the first place.

 

I totally envision myself saying those things just like Jack Nicholson in "A Few Good Men."

 

TRUTH!?!?!! YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

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Sav Established Member

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My ex was a great person. It's just that our personalities didn't really match. She did hurt me a great deal by breaking off our relationship but then I started to see the monster I had become and the things I had to do in order to improve as a person. Truthfully, she did me a favor by breaking it off.

 

As I said, great person, just different personalities so if she ever talked to me, I would just tell her thanks and keep on walking because the past is best left untouched. ~

Ramzk001 Member

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Ohhh baby, thank you for coming back in my love, I need you, I dream you, I love you most!

 

 

NOT!

 

 

 

I'd be like.....

 

 

You left me when i needed you most, Now you want commitment? No, Sorry but you are not reliable. You shouldnt be sad, you need some help from your 'Good time' friends. I forgive you but i love her now she stood beside me in bad times, Cant even think about losing her for you.

Mandos Member

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I already met her by accident. Said "Hello" and walked away. There was really nothing more to say. And never will be.

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I'm nuts Established Member

I'm nuts

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All the time :laugh:

 

I know I will always hear from mine, she owes me and when she matures she will know how much sacrifice I made to her asking for nothing in return.

 

I will always be polite as she done nothing wrong, neither of us did so there are no hard feelings, never were, never will be.

BewitchedandBothered Established Member

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Oh! I used to have an entire script of what I would say to my ex, should he contact me again....by the time he did contact me again, I ignored him. It was very empowering:)

flitzanu Established Member

flitzanu

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here's what i would say:

 

 

"............"

ReadMyThread Established Member

ReadMyThread

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Lol that's so wierd I was doing this in my head about 2 hours ago. Lol. I do it all the time and I can't wait until I get the chance to ACTUALLY say it to her. I know that day will come. The next time she gets hurt or dumped by the guy she cheated on me with and left me for, I'm going to rub it in her face sooooooo bad. That will be my revenge and exactly what I need. Oh my god I can't wait for it. I'd have sooooooo much to rub in her face it isn't even funny lol!! I can't wait. I loo forward to this day seriously lol. Watch, the day he leaves her or she gets dumped in the future, I will get my chance to let her have allllllll of what I'm going to say to her. I'm going to make her feel like ****. I'll include the guy she left me for in everything she tries to lie to me about lol. She'll be like, "I miss you." and I'll be like "No. You miss him.". "I love you." "No. You love him." lol and it will just keep going on from there. Ugh! I can't wait! Lol? Your getting me all excited lol.

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Say? Nothing. Look at her, smile and walk away.

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moveONorStay Established Member

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I broke up with her and have had a reasonable amount of regret for some reason...even though I spent the last 2 months of the relationship in constant anxiety due to her need to incessantly look at my phone to check my emails/texts/FB/Skype/Twitter...everything. I had nothing to hide. The relationship had so much potential but this was the beginning of the downfall...the final straw was when she emailed a female friend of mine from my phone, as if the email was from me, saying I couldn't do some planned business with her. I still kinda wish I had been able to sit down and talk to her about what happened, but after a couple of days of thinking about it I went and broke up with her without any hesitation or reasoning. I was so angry about it...in hindsight it could have been easily resolved...I'm torn because I really loved the girl and it was probably the greatest connection I've ever had with someone, but on the other hand I feel like I continually ignored red flags and the relationship was a controlling and manipulative one that would probably have worn me down in the end...

 

I'd say "I'm sorry I broke up with you, I was absolutely crazy about you and wanted you in my life but you sabotaged the relationship and now we'll never know what might have been, what a waste."

 

Now I just hope that like her previous 3 serious boyfriends, I go on to find someone better that I'll marry and be happy with!! (Yes, knowing that should have been a red flag in itself!!)

Simon Phoenix Established Member

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Nice shoes. Let's f--k.

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flitzanu Established Member

flitzanu

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Nice shoes. Let's f--k.

 

better yet... "HEY DIDN'T I BUY YOU THOSE SHOES????"

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U dumped me when i was broke,unemployed and depressed,i felt less than a man in that period and u,with your perfect life,were even complaining cause i was often sad,sorry if i didn't made u feel loved,cause i really loved u,i just had huge problems and wasn't focused 100% on the relationship. I don't wish the same to u,but if it will ever happen i wish u will have a more understanding partner,cause those days were really like hell. And remember that it was not my choice that my parents asked for a mortgage one year before my dad passed away and that company where i was working decided to close 6 months later. Did u ever asked how i was feeling cause i couldn't help my mother? Did u ever thought she is the only person from my family? I'm not so lucky to have grannies,uncles and aunts who could support us.

Sorry if during that period i was even supportive when u were failing your exam or when u were complaining about your job.

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