Gaz1 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 I've been with my wife for 5 yrs, married for 2.5 yrs, we had 2 children 4 yr old and a 16 month yr old, we've been happy well I thought we were, and we have been seperated for 2 months now, story follows- 4 months ago she bought a new car and ever since she has been going out with friends til 2 in morning, I completely trust my wife so never said anything just thought it was fair as I work 5 days a week and she's a full time mum, we always go out doing family things with the kids so I never take her out as a husband and wife do,(dates) I probably take her out once every 6 months. 1 day she told me she doesn't love me anymore and wanted a split, so I moved out and was confused, I send love letters to her and flowers but this seemed to make things worse,6 weeks went by with me climbing the walls trying to get her back and she told me another guy has been going out with her and my kids as friends,so I asked my friends if they knew him and they told me that he goes for taken women who have kids, then I find out that they r in a relationship and have been for weeks, my wife Denys it all and says she hasn't seen him for ages, then later tells me she kissed him last week, only cause my 4 yr old told me so. No she says she wants a divorce, this guy is 20 yr old ugly and nothing going for him, I'm confused, will she see sense soon or what do I do
Sisyphus2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 that sucks. i think i would pay the guy a visit. probably not the smartest thing to do, but if this guy pursues women with kids he is a scumbag.
Author Gaz1 Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 I have been tempted many of times, but I think it's better to let her see he's scum rather than push him away and have her blaming me some more
Sisyphus2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 yeah, its just not justice, and seems like this dirtbag needs to sat down and "talked to"
Author Gaz1 Posted November 28, 2012 Author Posted November 28, 2012 Straight away tho she changed into an evil bitch with no care about me what so ever, went from a nice caring wife to this bitch, and when I try to tell her he's scum she defends him as is he's great, I just hope she sees sense and realises what a big mistake she's made, throwing it all away even tho she has 2 beautiful kids with me
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