Bluemagico61 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 I met this girl last week and we've been chatting since. I like her a lot btw. We would talk about general things like 'How do you like your job?' or 'Where did you go to school?' and so on. She also started asking what music I like and started sending me songs that she liked.She works as a Nanny btw. The past couple of days, she started sending me pictures of her and the child she nannies for. One picture has her dressed up as Cinderella and the child as Dorothy from Wiz. of Oz. And another where she's just hugging the child out in the playground. Both times she's asked me if she thought the child was cute. I said 'yes' and a few other flattering words. She would also send me random messages of where she was, or what she was doing at that time. We found each other's facebook and added each other. I noticed that she has over 1000 friends and more than 1000 pictures where as i only have ~300 friends and less than 100 pictures. So I saw this and figured, "I've got no chance... she's probably too popular and too good for me." So i sorta just stopped chatting with her stating that 'my chat application uses too much of my phone battery' and then just said g'bye there. I coincidentally sent this as she was going to bed. I didn't receive a reply, so I thought she was already sleeping, so i just un-registered from the chat service and that was that. The next day I'm on Facebook and she pops-up in the chat saying 'What happened? Where'd you go? Did something happen?' I replied by saying that the chat app takes too much of my phone battery, thinking that she did not receive that last message i sent. After that we just started chatting through facebook chat. I was hesitant at first to start talking with her again as I was trying to stop myself from liking her due to her being too popular/good for me, but i couldn't help it. Yesterday I had to tell myself to stop talking to her because I knew that there was no chance for me to be with her and that i am just wasting my time trying to talk to her. So i told her i won't be using facebook anymore, citing privacy issues as my reason. She didn't understand at first, but then replied with 'Ok, good luck with your endeavors! If you need anything at all, don't hesitate to ask me!' and that was that. BUT i can't get her out of my mind, and i miss her a lot. So my question is, Is there a chance that she likes me? And should I go back to talk to her? Or is she just being friendly? Sorry for the long post, but i have no other way of expressing myself concisely; my English is kind of poor. Please Help!
Author Bluemagico61 Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 Thanks for the reply, She is real, i forgot to mention that we met in person at a church event.
Cutiepie1976 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 First your English is fine! For goodness sake, stop the negative chatter in your head. So she's a friendly, social person. Who cares! Just ask her out already!
Toddbt12y1 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Don't be afraid of her for her friends or popularity. She seems to like you. Besides Facebook friends is rather meaningless these days. Everyone accepts everyone for that 1+...most of those people are rarely spoken too. My ex had 400ish friends. I have only 27 very close friends. Out of the 400 I'd say she probably was only close friends with five-ten at most. FB friends doesn't mean one is so popular they are out of your league. Be confident. A man. She likes you. Do not let this become an unknown...that's haunting.
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