Gambler1984 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Does it sound normal for a girl who leaves a guy she had been involved with for close to 2 years, move away across the country for grad school and, not wanting a L-D relationship. She gets to her school, meets someone else in her program, tries to stay in touch with the guy back home and then when she tells him about the new guy, he isn't happy and basically stops communicating with her. She tried every so often to get in contact with him thorugh FB or texts, even sending a pic of her cat to get his attentnion, with little luck. After a couple of months, her and the new guy breakup, get back together a few weeks to a month later and then it ends again after 2-3 months again. After that she tries even harder to get in touch with the guy back home, he responds, but not with much haste or shows very little interest. She's always liking and commenting on his FB posts, but he never does anything on her wall. She was on a few dating sites from the spring up until recently, now she is back with the guy at her school again. Weird thing is, it seems like she likes to put up a profile pic of the two of them if they start dating again. This time she put up a pic that she had used last JAnuary, which seemed strange. She got off the dating sites as well. Does this sound normal? Does she miss the guy back home? Why get back together with the guy at school for what looks like a third time? Is there actually truly something there that couldn't keep them apart?
Cutiepie1976 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 I think unfortunately she has moved on with her life and is seeking love elsewhere (school, dating sites). It happens when you go to school. You grow and evolve, and with that what you seek and need in a partner changes. It's highly unlikely that she sees you as a viable romantic partner anymore, especially once she tried dating sites. She is probably "liking" your FB posts because she views you as a friend and sees the breakup as ending on amicable terms. You have to let go, rather than following her moves from afar. She's not coming back to you. You need to get on with YOUR life, rather than waiting indefinitely for her to come to her senses and return to you. That's a futile hope at this point I'm sorry to say, and it's keeping you in limbo. Once you do let go, you'll find the right person for you.
salmagundi Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 My thoughts? You need to spend less time thinking and worrying about what an ex that is a 1000 miles away and busily boning some other guy who is not you is doing and spend more time thinking about all the women you could be going after right around you. Life is too short to waste playing silly games with silly exes...
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