Candle037 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Hi, Looking for opinion into what is going on with me and this guy I work with. We flirt alot we laugh he asked me what I was doing the weekend of and my phone rings......I get interrupted from him asking me out. He leaves and the conversation wasn't picked up. A few weeks later one of his friends is fishing around with me to see if I am single and I tell them yes and they said that they thought I was seeing someone and I said were done. I didn't think about it much but conveniently the next day the guy I like needs a ride to the mechanic to get his car out of the shop. Im really excited to help him out and on the ride there he asks alot of really pointed questions about where I am from and about my family backround as I am from eastern Canada. He asks why alot and I explain alot in a 30 minute car ride. He then talks about how girls he knows like to jump into things to fast with owning a house and having kids. He said in due time but it is 0 to 60 too fast right away. I questioned if we were talking about him and he said yes. He also said that women don't appreciate what he does for a living. I asked how old these women are and he said 27-35. I told him that its 5 years education in his trade and plus he makes good money and these women should know better. I do not let on anything about myself or what I am looking for during this conversation. So.......2 weeks later I ask him out to our christmas party and he says no he is keeping the night open. Not only was I rejected but he was rude to me. I am so confused as to why he is still after this continually flirting with me and engaging me in conversation and I am just ignoring him and my friends tell me that he stares at me (not in a creepy way). I ignore him entirely and continue my work and avoid eye contact. I am not rude to him but I keep it very brief. Is he now chasing me?? My friend tells me that some guys like to chase woman?? I wanted to know what anyone else thought about this because all signs he gave me lead to yes but looks like Im being lead on.
ssd360 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 You keep thinking that he keeps flirting with you but you may take the flirty things he is doing as just a nice guy. He might just be a really nice guy that just talks to women. If he was interested he would make time trust me and take the initiative. No need to get hung up but when you see him say hi and be friendly as if nothing has happened but do not ask him out again.
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