pandagirl Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Need some input: Heard from my ex today for the first time in about two years. He wrote me saying he missed me. I am not writing him back. Question is, do I tell my current boyfriend about this? Is it worth it to get him upset over something he has nothin to worry about?
Arabella Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 I don't see any reason to worry your boyfriend over nothing. Delete the message and carry on. -A 1
melodymatters Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Disagree, the smallest white lies have a way of coming back and biting you in the behind. Be very casual and just mention " It was weird, Joe texted me out of the blue today, I just deleted it, what an azzhat" and move on.... EDIT, rather do NOT delete it so he can see that that was all there was to the encounter : One text from HIM.
Author pandagirl Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 OK, i am leaning towards telling him. I guess I am just apprehensive, because I know it will upset him a little... and he will probably get sulky...
veggirl Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 I wouldn't tell. If my man got an I Miss You txt from an ex and wasn't responding, didn't give a s.hit about the text, I would rather not know about it. Now if the ex continued or the one text was like a long emotional email...then I'd say tell.
tori0001 Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Why cause unnecessary drama, don't say anything.
AMusing Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 One text message? I wouldn't bother to tell him. It was likely just a random drunken text that won't happen again. If the ex kept texting, that would be a different story. Would you be upset if his ex texted him once, he didn't reply, and didn't tell you? If so, then you should probably tell him. If it wouldn't, then don't bother. On another note, why would it make him sulky?
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