rie05 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Hi again (Please see my previous post for more info) Basically since then..... I had one week of no contact. After one week I contacted him via email to ask him for a resignation letter (required by law) as he had left without notice. The email was professional and almost immediately he contacted me via text saying "yep, when I've got the time". I replied and asked if he could collect his things too, to which I got the same answer plus "then you can be well rid". Anyway I couldn't help myself and this spiralled into an argument. We agreed to meet that night and I met him outside my house. He was waiting in the car. I got in the car and we talked but all I really got out of him was a pack of lies. He said he had a job at 1:30am (he is minicab driver) but he had his PDA turned off so he obviously was not working. His mobile rang 3 times at 1:30am and I asked him to see the phone. He refused. After the fourth call he gave in and showed me it was the girl he had been in the car with previously. He tried to say it was "just a job" and pretty much chucked me out of the car leaving me in tears. At this point, I should of left it alone....... But I couldn't. I thought I seriously needed to find out the whole truth. I know I knew enough already. Anyway I had a device l
mammasita Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Mistake number ONE - moving in with him after 6 months. I'm definitely not judging you because I am guilty of it too but when we have children (mine is 11) we can't jump into cohabitation that quick. Give it time. I've certainly learned my lesson and I hope that you have too. Secondly, why are you torturing yourself? Its clear from your first thread that he is cheating. I understand needing truth and closure, but weren't the stains in his pants enough?
Author rie05 Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 Yeah it should have been enough. And I even made the mistake of saying I would forgive him and we could try etc.... but now I'm the one who is made out to be the bad one.... I never have the other guy the wrong impression. I guess from his responses to me that he feels he is well out of it anyway. He gives me the "not right now.. give me time" cra*!! Yeah -- he shouldn't of moved in so quickly but at the time it felt right.
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