Sweetheart16 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 My ex broke up with me, but we agreed to be friends. But then I've realized this can't be since I still have feelings for him. I told him the truth and to give me space and time since I wasn't being 100% sincere with him. He got mad but didn't say anything to stop me. But the next day he just texted me a cute good morning text like nothing happened. I'm so confused. If he really cares and didn't want to lose me why did he break up with me & didn't he hesitate when I told him I needed space? What should I do? I mean I still want him back, but I want HIM to be the one that tells me this.
Treasa Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 He knows how you feel about him and he's stringing you along, doing the least bit necessary to keep you on the hook. I would not reply to anything he sends and go completely NC with him.
movingon12 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 I agree with the above. Ignore the texts.
PennGuy Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Ignore. Ignore. Ignore. He's just keeping you close.
Gottabestrong Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Sounds like he does not want you back as a girlfriend, but wants to still keep you in his his life. If you are trying to move on, I would suggest you insist on your space and time and either ignore his texts, or tell him one more time that you were serious and will not reply to his messages in the future. I know it sucks, we just got to believe that it will get better.
Author Sweetheart16 Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 I feel so stupid I wish I would've read this earlier. I replied with a simple "good morning" and he said "hahaha you replied!! you know you wanted to!" "where's my good morning kiss?" this just pissed me off more. What kind of game is he playing? Where he didnt even respect my decision. I dont even know why I replied i'm basically wasting my time waiting for something that isn't going to happen... I'm just going to sit back and do nothing.*
KatZee Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 I feel so stupid I wish I would've read this earlier. I replied with a simple "good morning" and he said "hahaha you replied!! you know you wanted to!" "where's my good morning kiss?" this just pissed me off more. What kind of game is he playing? Where he didnt even respect my decision. I dont even know why I replied i'm basically wasting my time waiting for something that isn't going to happen... I'm just going to sit back and do nothing.* It's called the selfish game. Now he's just being an a.sshole. He dumped you and is now making jokes? Block his number if you can. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone to have you. JUSTINCASE anyone he involves himself with doesn't pan out. He's putting you on the back burner. If he TRULY loved you he wouldn't be so selfish and he'd respect your wishes, and also, any guy that says, "Lets be friends" and honestly sticks to that and treats you like an actual friend is a guy that has fallen out of love with you a long time ago. No one who's in love with anyone is capable of just being a friend.
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