Trisb4u Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Was dating for six and a half years. Her's and my longest relationship. Is there any chance of an ex girlfriend coming back when the intimacy died in our relationship (my fault). She got with someone else two weeks after the breakup. A mutual friend of ours. It hurts like hell.
cand Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Yea there is a chance.. considering there are a lot of details missing here, I'd have to say there is a chance. I'd start by finding out more. Has she 'fallen out of love' with you over the last year or two? Or, maybe this "friend" persuaded her.. I actually had that happen to me with my first girlfriend. A "friend" and I met two chicks the same day. One basically jumped me and the next day tells me she is more interested in my friend, but her friend really likes me.. Was pretty crazy.. About a year later one of the chicks moved out of state - not my GF - and this "friend" of mine decided to dull the pain by, basically, stealing my GF. Then a few months after that, she ended up cheating on that guy too with yet another guy I knew.. She was a real train wreck.. That's an example of you're better off without her.. Point is there are a lot of things not being told in your post, and quite frankly even if you did write a few paragraphs there would still be more questions. Anyway. Apparently there are posts on this forum that address your question already, and of course there are self help books such as the one reviewed at the site my signature points at. This is an actual review, though, and the thing with this book is it is sold through a company called Clickbank which has a 60 day 100% money back guarantee. Having said that.. you're PROBABLY better off if you just heal, get past it, and move on.. and this "mutual friend", sorry.. but they are *NOT* a friend. Best advice I can give you right now is never speak to that guy again.
Author Trisb4u Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 What information would you like to know? When she ended the relationship she said to my friend look after him as i still love him??? But then days later i text her and asked "i know you love me but are you not in love with me" and she said no sorry.
Author Trisb4u Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 Is it possible for you to send me a link to these post as i am having trouble finding them. I cant find any that really relate to my situation. I didnt know there was a major problem in the relationship until one day she said we need to talk and that was the end. I know he is no friend of mine. He split up with his ex GF recently after there long term relationship and was going round my ex for moral support. I didnt think anything of this. He used to slap his ex about hence why they broke up. Horrible i know. He is a waster. Sells weed as a full time profession and has anger issues. He got barred from the job centre. Who gets barred from the job centre really?
Treasa Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 If she's seeing someone else (even if he's a loser), and she said that she's not in love with you, I would say the chances are slim. Once a woman makes up her mind to leave a relationship, often she's emotionally checked out already. You should be addressing the reason behind the lack of intimacy. I have to admit that this one hits me hard, because it's a big factor in why I broke up with my recent ex.
Author Trisb4u Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 (edited) Did you speak to your ex about the intimacy problems? I understand about my intimacy issues. Life was stressful at her's as she had two teenage kids always around. We never had time to build on our relationship. I just didnt realise it was bothering her that much as we never had a discussion about it. The relationship seemed fine four weeks prior when we went ice skating as a family holding hands and everything and then a week after that was her birthday and everything seemed ok. It seemed to me a rapid downhill spiral in about three weeks to me. He was going round her house for emotional support about his break up. Edited November 26, 2012 by Trisb4u
Author Trisb4u Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 i made misakes in the relationship i admitted that but doesnt everyone deserve a chance. I feel if she loved me at any point she would of given me a chance. And to move on so quick in two weeks to a guy like him must of meant she didnt even respect me after all i had done for her over the years.
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