ssd360 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 (edited) So I decided to create a account on this site because I have been reading alot and decided posting now would help me out with my situations. (I was honestly embarrassed to at first). Ill try to make this as short as possible. I met this girl we are in our early 20's she works at a tanning salon next to the coffee shop that I regularly go to. I ran into her a couple times and one day decided to walk on over to say hi. We talked for about 20 min and it went really great I was cocky, funny and we had a great conversation. She tells me she is off Monday and Tuesday so I take the initiative and say "on tuesday we can grab a bite to eat later in the evening" she says ok sounds good. I then say well how do I get a hold of you to confirm and she gives me her number. So on thanksgiving the following day she Texts me happy thanksgiving and how was the turkey bowl. (turkey bowl is the football game i told her about i play every year the night before when i saw her). So I responded 30 min later it was great and now putting the turkey in the oven and we chatted over text for about half the day. I ask her a question she doesn't respond back the whole night and same with friday. I only texted her once after she didn't respond. So i decide to leave it alone she texts me saturday morning in response to the question. I ignore the delay and just ask how is your day going? and no response in return. So the questions is why is she doing this? and i happened to see her saturday evening and she just smiled and said hi I said hi and didn't intiate any further conversation. i parked my car near her work and she happened to be there. I like this girl and for some reason this happens to me I get the number and its ethier no response or what i described above. Please help thanks Sorry for the long response i just wanted to be exact so there wasnt any confusion Edited November 26, 2012 by ssd360
mortensorchid Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 That's rough, you obviously see each other because your work is right next to each others'. You shouldn't stress as to the why, maybe she just changed her mind about it, but she's not interested anymore. If and when you see her again, just be friendly and give her a smile and a wave, but that's all. Move on.
Author ssd360 Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 (edited) ^ yeah i understand but its Monday now and our "date" or whatever you want to call it is on tuesday so....... should i try one last time tuesday and just leave it at that..? idk this kind of stuff frustrates me and makes me think what is going on this has happened to me with the last 4 girls. (not to sound cocky buts its not my looks i am 6 foot 1 slim build workout 5 days a week etc.) and having a conversation is not a problem idk maybe i got for the 9s and 10s too often im not sure anymore... Edited November 26, 2012 by ssd360
MrCastle Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 This has happened to me a before. Worse even, as some girls from school have flaked on me and then showed up to class the next week with a smile like nothing happened. Of course if you question her about it she automatically puts you into the "creepy stalker virgin who gets too emotional" pile. You have to approach it as a cool, level headed person. If she flakes, don't even call her out on it, live your life as you were. Don't complain about her sudden disappearing act or delayed texts. Act as if you've noticed no change.
Author ssd360 Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 This has happened to me a before. Worse even, as some girls from school have flaked on me and then showed up to class the next week with a smile like nothing happened. Of course if you question her about it she automatically puts you into the "creepy stalker virgin who gets too emotional" pile. You have to approach it as a cool, level headed person. If she flakes, don't even call her out on it, live your life as you were. Don't complain about her sudden disappearing act or delayed texts. Act as if you've noticed no change. ^ yeah this is how ive been playing it i just don't know what to do about tuesday should i call and see if she answers if not take your approach from there on out.
Author ssd360 Posted November 27, 2012 Author Posted November 27, 2012 Thanks for the replies keep them coming!
LittlePrince Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 So I decided to create a account on this site because I have been reading alot and decided posting now would help me out with my situations. (I was honestly embarrassed to at first). Ill try to make this as short as possible. I met this girl we are in our early 20's she works at a tanning salon next to the coffee shop that I regularly go to. I ran into her a couple times and one day decided to walk on over to say hi. We talked for about 20 min and it went really great I was cocky, funny and we had a great conversation. She tells me she is off Monday and Tuesday so I take the initiative and say "on tuesday we can grab a bite to eat later in the evening" she says ok sounds good. I then say well how do I get a hold of you to confirm and she gives me her number. So on thanksgiving the following day she Texts me happy thanksgiving and how was the turkey bowl. (turkey bowl is the football game i told her about i play every year the night before when i saw her). So I responded 30 min later it was great and now putting the turkey in the oven and we chatted over text for about half the day. I ask her a question she doesn't respond back the whole night and same with friday. I only texted her once after she didn't respond. So i decide to leave it alone she texts me saturday morning in response to the question. I ignore the delay and just ask how is your day going? and no response in return. So the questions is why is she doing this? and i happened to see her saturday evening and she just smiled and said hi I said hi and didn't intiate any further conversation. i parked my car near her work and she happened to be there. I like this girl and for some reason this happens to me I get the number and its ethier no response or what i described above. Please help thanks Sorry for the long response i just wanted to be exact so there wasnt any confusion Absent minded with too many options. That's my guess.
Oxy Moronovich Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 Flaking comes as easily to women as quacking comes to ducks.
Recommended Posts