shadow15 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 You guys may have read my topics, but im finally going to delete my ex from facebook, phone, etc. I just found out she got in a relationship with another dude after our 2 months of being broke up, good for her i suppose. Of course i had to snoop; luckily and i do believe and so do a lot of other people think that she downgraded. Hopefully this will boost my ego quite a bit and maybe make me the stud i should be lol . Its so weird though because earlier today i was so broke down that i almost msged her cause i just wanted to talk, sure glad i didnt, but now i feel sorta relieved. That false hope is now gone and what she does and how she is doing is none of my concern anymore. I just hope i can keep it up and try to keep her off my mind and hopefully find somebody new sometime soon, this being lonely crap sucks lol. I just wanna say i think its funny, cause i dont think she will ever find a bf like me. I may have not been the most supportive bf at times about certain things, but i told her the truth about everything and told her my opinion. Even after we may have disagreed upon on stuff, i still supported her decision all the way through. I will now take what i have learned from this failed first time love and put it forward to the next or nexts. I just know this first one is a tough one to get over, i got too attached and truly in love with her and her family.
LostOne1 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 You guys may have read my topics, but im finally going to delete my ex from facebook, phone, etc. I just found out she got in a relationship with another dude after our 2 months of being broke up, good for her i suppose. Of course i had to snoop; luckily and i do believe and so do a lot of other people think that she downgraded. Hopefully this will boost my ego quite a bit and maybe make me the stud i should be lol . Its so weird though because earlier today i was so broke down that i almost msged her cause i just wanted to talk, sure glad i didnt, but now i feel sorta relieved. That false hope is now gone and what she does and how she is doing is none of my concern anymore. I just hope i can keep it up and try to keep her off my mind and hopefully find somebody new sometime soon, this being lonely crap sucks lol. I just wanna say i think its funny, cause i dont think she will ever find a bf like me. I may have not been the most supportive bf at times about certain things, but i told her the truth about everything and told her my opinion. Even after we may have disagreed upon on stuff, i still supported her decision all the way through. I will now take what i have learned from this failed first time love and put it forward to the next or nexts. I just know this first one is a tough one to get over, i got too attached and truly in love with her and her family. I feel exactly like you man... I liked her family a lot, it was odd because I am the oldest kid in my family. But for hers she's the youngest and that made the youngest too. So it was odd at first but cool to have older brothers and sisters. Honestly me and my ex haven't introduced any other relationships we had to family. So it was special for me at least... But honestly, I don't think she cared much about family. She tried to push me away from mines later on in the relationship. I agree with you sometimes people leave another or do stupid things. In my case I don't think my ex will find anyone better. She only ever has attracted "bad" guys, I was the first that was actually nice and respectful. I think that's what she found attractive of me. I guess somewhere on her trip away we lost communication and she blamed it all on me. From then on more fights and what not.. till we said and did so many horrible things that we killed anything we had left. That hurts me the most.. 3 yrs, you introduce your families, you take vacations you do everything. Only for one thing to create even bigger problems and eventually destroying anything left possible. And worst of all I think it's a shock for us dumpees. Because we see it as working things out, but they have reasoned to want to get out and only think about their own feelings. Keeping her off your mind is going to be tough. It's been awhile for me too, but once in awhile I feel the pain still. The fact that she might have replaced me, or might have not and said she did and created a fight over nothing. But then again.. I guess things happen for the best? Maybe it has to end up this way, because we are supposed to meet someone else or head in another direction in life. So we feel this pain... Gosh I really miss the days when I didn't date at all... I never felt pain, because it was always about me and my career and friends. No worries about a girl, or having to go out of my way etc.. After going through it now.. sure there were things learned and some good times... but I feel happy for those that haven't dated. They may not get the experience, but at least they don't feel the pain of loss.
witmadskilllz Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 my ex hooked up with one of her old high school friend; this was 2 weeks after the breakup and they're still in a relationship till this day. I've remained NC since then and till now; that's 2 years +
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