Sinkster Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 About end of September, I realize that I like this girl & nothing really happened between us. We were just really good friends hanging out all the time. The weird thing was that we didn't have each other's cell phone numbers. It was something that we didn't mind because we see each other everyday. I actually thought that I've gotten closer to her. I had no intentions of telling her my feelings. On her senior portrait day, she was acting really weird. It was understandable since she didn't like her pictures. I walked her to the bus stop right after she took her pictures & I know something was wrong. She wasn't that outgoing & talkative person like she always was. I've told her the things that has been bothering me lately since I trust her. I didn't really stress over the problem because I knew that she wasn't happy with her portraits at all, so I decided to get over it. Since that day.. we've have been like strangers. We would rarely say hi to each other. Sometimes, we would give eye contact to each other but would turn away really fast. I wasn't used to this at all & it bothered me quite a bit. She was the one usually giving me the attention & now it's like she's avoiding & ignoring me. Our talks would be very inconsistent. Maybe she would answer a question & that would be it. I thought she was just upset for a while, but she was only quiet & shy around me but not to our other friends. This has been happening for about a month & so. She is usually the caring type of person. Whenever someone was down, she would be there to comfort that person. So one day, I found out news that really brought me down. To a point where I was about to cry. While everyone was comforting me, she looked like she didn't care at all... I'm just wondering... what's wrong? Was there something I did wrong. Getting ignored really sucks haha. My friends are telling me that I'm just over thinking & being paranoid about this situation. But to me, I'm sure something is up. I can't read her at all.. This is my first time actually falling for someone without getting led on.. over her personality. Her looks were just a HUGE bonus.
LoverOfDance Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 That's weird. I think your friends may be right. Maybe you're overthinking it. Sometimes ppl just stop talking 4 no reason at all. Just go and say hi to her. Start a conversation and keep trying to talk to her. If she doesn't seem 2 want to talk then just let it be and move on. At least you know u tried. Que sera sera.
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