No2pencil Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Hello everyone. I'm new to this & I have been dealing with a hard breakup, so the only way I can get things out is by letting people know. I'm 22 & so is my ex girlfriend. She recently left me for another male. It's so strange how he went about doing so. We had an amazing relationship for 3, almost 4, years. We talked a lot, went out a lot, had family dinners with our respective families, everyone always mentioned us as a perfect couple. So, about a week ago, a Saturday, I was suppose to take her out. I called her all day, but her phone was off. As the day went on, I got worried that something happened to her. Around 11pm she returned my called and said, "what do you want?". I was confused by her rude answer and I said, "You ok? I was worried because I was suppose to pick you up so I can take you out". She said, "Sorry, my feelings have changed for you!" then she clicked. I called back and never got a response. Till this day .. nothing. The next day I found out she was in a relationship. I'm so confused! I seriously never did anything wrong! She blocked me from everything! How can she throw 3 1/2 years out the door so easily? I understand getting over someone, but damn! My heart is broken. I seriously can't function at all. I know it's stupid, but I seriously can't function. I would understand if I was a jerk, or not a good boyfriend, but there isn't a reason. I even asked her why her feelings changed and she said they just did sorry nothing against you. Girls are so cold-hearted!
ja123 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 "My heart is broken. I seriously can't function at all. I know it's stupid, but I seriously can't function." It's not stupid. Breaking up, whether you initiate or not, really hurts. It can hurt like hell, and takes time to get over. Hang in there, man.
dasein Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Welcome to the forum. That long a relationship and you only get a flippant phone blowoff and then hangs up on you? Be thankful you didn't waste another minute of time with this pig. Imagine if you had children or married when this happened, but you avoided that and are very lucky. I know it doesn't feel anything like luck now, but in time it will. You are young and can do better. Be strong in NC, don't contact her in any way and ignore any contact attempts. Try to get busy with life and get exercise and eat right. Good luck moving forward.
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