michaelbui Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 We broke up, had NC for a couple months until I have hurt my arm. She gives me call to make sure I was okay and asked if she can come to see me. When she came to see me, she started crying and telling me how worried she was about me. She was also apologizing for everything she has done to me. She also saw my grandma in the mall a couple days ago and initiated talking with her. She was telling me how she felt like she almost lost a second family. We go to to my house, we started flirting and then after the night was over, the next day she was a different person again. She changed so much, she doesn't care like she used to be, she is a lil bit heartless. We would text each other and then she would stop. I feel like she only talks to me whenever nobody is with her and craves my attention. But when she is with friends, she ignores my texts and decides to text me after they all leave or whenever she is back at home. Yesterday was our anniversary, well... suppose to be. She called me saying she was thinking about me. I knew what day it was and everything but, I was speaking nothing but truth. I remember telling her, it felt like a normal day to me, nothing special. Anyways, to get on point.. I feel like she comes back into my life but then, she doesn't give me her full 100% attention anymore. I feel like I should do NC for good. idk what to do.. I already moved on from all the hurt, but it annoys me how she doesnt give me all her attention. And what annoys me is that i see her friends statuses on facebook doing all the things that me and her are suppose to do when we were together. But now she is doing it with her friends. Any advice? She still cries and about me and stuff but... idk what she is trying to do. I don't cry over her anymore. Also im suppose to be hanging out with her next friday.
amaysngrace Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 It's impossible to give someone all your attention and unreasonable to expect them to. You understand that, don't you?
Author michaelbui Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 well when were together and loved each other very much, she would always give me her attention. After the break up, its different. of course i know that but, we had nc for a couple months, I would at least expect her to tell me that she is busy or something instead of just ignore me. She doesn't even tell me that she is busy and can't talk or something.
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