mike542 Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 My girlfiend and I broke up thurday is be comeing about a couple months now.I really care for this lady a lot and i love her.I am 49yrs old was marrige for 23 yrs lose my wife to cancer in dec 2000,I took this lady out in may 30 2003 and we be living together for 11 months she is 44yrs old.WE at one time was going to git marrige and then about may everything change with her, she ask me to move all my suffe down with her bye may,so I give my bedroom to my son who is 18yrs old.we was talking marrige being the stepmother to my kids.In july she told me this may not work,she told me maybe we should just date.WE really had not dated, i dancer with her acouple of time but she wanted my freind but he donot want her that was in jan 2003 to may 2004 she came to my baseball game one we talk a couple of time but nothing more.But in may 30 when when out we be together. This is the e-mail she send and we have talk 2-time on the phone and she talk me at the end she love me. good monring.I had a good night sleep I hope you did.I see that I've lived alone so long that I've grown to be more comfortable this way.I was just thinking how Jeff"ex-boyfriend"and I date for two year before we lived together,THEN it began going down hill when we lived together the last year.I know this my not be comforting to you but at least I am figuring thing out.I think it's a good idea for you to get out of that apartment now "in-laws live up stair"and we can take it from there maybe we can go apartment hunting together.I hope you have a good day.I still love you please be patient with me. I donot have a good day,that was saturday I when in jion the gym. She be a lone most all her life raise her daugher by herself, father had nothing to do with the daugher she was marrige one only for a year.I just like to now what should i do, I love her.
Velveteel Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 This seems simple. She cares about you, but doesn't want to move forward into a life together. As painful as it is, you'll have to accept this. Give her your best wishes and tell her you have to move on now. You need to find someone who really does want to marry you and live together.
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