star-fish Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 ok, Yeah I tottaly understand that im a horrible guy, but am i really that out of line..... Me and my partner got together under strange ways, which would be a whole other string on its own, and things havent been the best with us for a while. But thats not the problem, The other night, she asks me to sign on my msn so she can check my contacts.....im not a child and do not need checking up on, im quite a private guy, and really feel that my email account and convos I have with my mates are really between us...The stupid thing is I have nothing to hide, and lok like such a bad guy when i say she is invading my space.... How do I tell her that ther are somethings you just keep to your self? thanks
Pocky Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 Tell her that individual privacy is allowed by everyone even when they enter into a relationship and if she doesn't trust you then the more important thing to do at this time is talk about why she doesn't trust you. Your contacts on MSN would tell her nothing and if you give into her need to check up on you now then it will only increase and she'll become paranoid if the day ever came when you didn't allow her to check. And it's just plain rude. It would be like someone reading your journal or diary just because they were in a relationship with you.
Author star-fish Posted August 9, 2004 Author Posted August 9, 2004 thank you so much, yeah it reall helps...I just feel that there are some things that i shouldnt have to explain.....I dont see how you gaintrust from checking emails, its a word that you give someone, not an action you try to prove...thank you so much again dan
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