naomiml Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Ok, so I broke up from a loveless relationship in October, it had been on the rocks for a long time as my partner had told me he wanted me to lose weight and from that I developed a lot of problems... anyway, in the latter part of that relationship someone else expressed their interest. To begin I wasn't that moved by him. After I broke up I saw that second guy cos we do a lot of the same things and well I started feeling more and more attracted to him. I would stay over at his, it wasn't a sexual relationship, we made out but he never pushed for anything more. When I was with him and our friends he still always put his arm around me and didn't shy away from showing it. After a month of this and all the time he had been interested before I wanted to figure out what he wanted... he never made it clear. So I outright asked him one day, where do you want this to go? and he replied I don't want a relationship right now... WTF? I think he made it quite clear but trying to move on from that is too hard, I have had other guys try and gain my affection but I just feel nothing. I can't seem to feel attracted to anyone else, I was pretty much in love with him... :/ and I just don't know what to do.
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