Nightsky Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Girls don't you like it when a guy really knows how to look at you. I mean when you can feel his eyes upon you burning a hole in your clothes. Heat vision if you will? Guys isn't it great to stare down that special girl in your life, or just that girl across the room.
Author Nightsky Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 A bump for my thus far ignored thread. I mean I take the time to write this out and what to get some dialogue going about this and people of the internets could care less. Mean while the "Black women who don't like IR's with BM/WW" thread is bumping like the club. I mean I expected some girls to come in and be like. "Don't stare at us" to that I'd be like "you know you like it" or "speak for yourself I do what I want." Maybe some white nights talking about "I never look at girls." Than some guys talking about "skin your in" and "Some times I look at a girl and I think she drops something on purpose so I can see her pick it up." Oh you guys let me down. I make a thread I expect immediate / constant responses. I was thinking about this.
Feelin Frisky Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 It's impolite to stare at someone you haven't made any social connection yet with. I have always loved being noticed and returning notice and making a soft gesture of delight but staring isn't on the agenda until there's something more material that tells me it won't be taken as aggression or just arrogant license to gawk. I have a history of blushing. I wish they had Prozac when I was young--it stopped it entirely. I'd probably have "stared" more.
Author Nightsky Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 It's impolite to stare at someone you haven't made any social connection yet with. Is it also impolite to burp loudly after finishing your meal, not in China! The point I'm trying to make here is don't judge me. I have always loved being noticed and returning notice and making a soft gesture of delight but staring isn't on the agenda until there's something more material that tells me it won't be taken as aggression or just arrogant license to gawk. I have a history of blushing. I wish they had Prozac when I was young--it stopped it entirely. I'd probably have "stared" more. Yes being noticed is great, and so is some one catching your attention. I both enjoy making people blush and or feeling the heat myself. As for Prozac and other mind altering drugs they are used far to often in today's world, but that is another topic.
todreaminblue Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Is it also impolite to burp loudly after finishing your meal, not in China! The point I'm trying to make here is don't judge me. Yes being noticed is great, and so is some one catching your attention. I both enjoy making people blush and or feeling the heat myself. As for Prozac and other mind altering drugs they are used far to often in today's world, but that is another topic. I cant speak for all women I do know if i get stared at, to the point i feel heat, its not a comfortable feeling, especially if i smile and there is no response,had this happen recently actually, you have to wonder what the person is thinking....i smile to break the perusal and ill look away if i look back and that person is till staring the heat comes, and it isn't pleasant....i don't see how someone might find that reaction from someone enjoyable...blushing can be a sign of shyness, and pushing someone to have that response who i shy to me isnt considerate or respectful and not a way to get kicks..if i was attracted to a guy he wouldnt have to stare to make me blush...deb
Author Nightsky Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 I cant speak for all women I do know if i get stared at, to the point i feel heat, its not a comfortable feeling, especially if i smile and there is no response,had this happen recently actually, you have to wonder what the person is thinking....i smile to break the perusal and ill look away if i look back and that person is till staring the heat comes, and it isn't pleasant....i don't see how someone might find that reaction from someone enjoyable...blushing can be a sign of shyness, and pushing someone to have that response who i shy to me isnt considerate or respectful and not a way to get kicks..if i was attracted to a guy he wouldnt have to stare to make me blush...deb I wonder how old are you? You really do physically feel the heat of a stare down don't you? I know I do. It's interesting the physical reaction a deep stare can elicit. Eye contact what a special thing. The stare down doesn't have to be at their face haha.
todreaminblue Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 I wonder how old are you? You really do physically feel the heat of a stare down don't you? I know I do. It's interesting the physical reaction a deep stare can elicit. Eye contact what a special thing. The stare down doesn't have to be at their face haha. Im in my 40s and no i don't feel the heat of a stare down its a reaction to being stared at.....blushing...intimidation isnt heat.....its cold... as i said if i was attracted to someone the blush that comes from underneath my skin to the surface, that is heat....and a whole different feeling and the guy wouldnt have to be staring at me....the blush comes from me feeling attracted to him not from him staring....he wouldn't have to stare.........deb
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