MrCastle Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Its not about teaching as much as him just having been inside if a vagina a few times so maybe he lasts longer then 8 seconds with his first partner His first partner will be an escort. They're people. Not a fleshlight.
ascendotum Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 I went just a few days ago and i dont regret it..got to have sex with a beautful women get a sexual release and quenched my high sex drive Since women arent attracted to me and i love sex i really dont have any other option..i dont see the big deal I think its probably less of a big deal for the older perma single guys, assuming it ideally does not become a total substitute and stop them making an effort to finding a relationship....but really if it makes them happy, then whats it matter to anyone else who wouldn't care otherwise. In OPs case, if it was strictly to 'lose his cherry' because being a virgin was a major psychological burden for him, I'd say it would serve its purpose. With OP it seems like its more to deal with horny desire, and really its only going to sate that for a little while, and its not like he is working full-time to be able to afford it easily too often. If his realizes its limitations in terms of the event making any positive impact on his ability to improve his opportunities or attraction to girls, and sees it as just a bit of fun + get the 'no experience' monkey off his back, then just do it (and don't worry about what a bunch of strangers on the LS think) 1
Author Sun Devil Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 I know that escorts are no substitute for a long term relationship, but I simply dont want to wait for sex anymore. I also am looking at casual encounters on craiglist to see if there are any options. I am just tired of being the only virgin and want to lose it. I dont care if I have to pay for it, I just want it gone. I still will work on myself to get a long term relationship, but that could be years off.
somedude81 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Big deal? You mean besides the fact that you're paying big bucks for non emotional sex with a low quality partner when others around you are having great sex for free? You do know that people have been paying big bucks for non emotional sex with a low quality partner when others around them are having great sex for free, for the past few thousand years right?
Mumbles Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I've tried it once and found out that it is nothing for me. She was lovely, smart and beautiful. So no complaints there. I wasn't being cheap either, cost me 150 Euros for 50 minutes together in her hotel room. But I was nervous as hell, sweating to an obnoxious degree and it was a pretty awkward situation overall. Also could barely get hard, even though she was my type physically You know, I'm in a funny transitory post divorce part of my life where I'm not interested in a conventional relationship yet still miss feminine company. I don't just mean bumping and grinding, but I do mean some sort of female physical intimacy. I have female friends so its not company at an intellectual level that I'm missing. I came here via a circuitous route on the web and its been really interesting. An escort service is really something I'd never seriously considered previously ... and I'm no spring chicken and blushing bride, I've seen some life believe me. But I have to thank you for your honesty in the post quoted above - I can see this scenario being exactly one that would play out for me Everything just right, not cheaping out, seems ok, mentally think I've got my head around it ... yet something just isn't right. More learning and thinking for me to do I suspect.
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