NoneoftheAbove Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 with such a terrible thing how could you??? So i broke up with this girl i loved very very very much. I need some letting out to do. Last weekend it was my friends birthday party at a bar, my friend invited my ex she said she would come but she didnt. We had a argument prior to that day so she said "im too upset and i dont really feel like coming" so i went to the party myself. My friend needed a lift to the bar so i picked them up, herself and her friend. We went to the bar had a good time. Next day i meet up with my ex she tells me "whats that bruise on your face" im like there is no bruise on my face. Than she pops the question "who did you **** last night" i told her that i didnt touch anyone and i didnt have any contact with other girls. So i let it go without getting too angry, i take her out to downtown we had a great time bar hopping and having drinks. I spent the night over at my ex's house and everything was fine. After a week, she calls me and says that her vagina is itchy and she again asked me if i had sex with my friend that needed a lift. I told her again that i didnt touch anyone. She blames me for giving her a disease..Now i've been dating this chick for almost a year..how dare you to blame someone who loved you so much with such a terrible thing? She says shes not blaming but just wondering if i gave it to her and wants to know if i slept with my friend....how dare you to accuse me like this.. I told you the first time you accused me i didnt do anything.. I decided to let this girl go from the moment she told me whats that bruise on my face and has the balls to ask me if i slept around. I guess she never really knew me. im such in pain that i feel like i could die.
mammasita Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Itchy vagina doesn't always mean STD. she needs to see a doc before making accusations.
movingon12 Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 If she does have an STD (it might not be that), it had to come from somewhere - and if you're the only person she's sleeping with, it has to have come from you. So I can see why she's questioning you. But it seems she didn't trust you even before she got sick. That's either because she's being unreasonable, or because she has a reason to think she can't trust you. It sounds like you did the right thing by breaking up though because you can't have a relationship without trust.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 Itchy vagina doesn't always mean STD. she needs to see a doc before making accusations. Thats exactly what i said..you go get checked and find out what it is than start asking questions. But she still questions me being unfaithful..
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 If she does have an STD (it might not be that), it had to come from somewhere - and if you're the only person she's sleeping with, it has to have come from you. So I can see why she's questioning you. But it seems she didn't trust you even before she got sick. That's either because she's being unreasonable, or because she has a reason to think she can't trust you. It sounds like you did the right thing by breaking up though because you can't have a relationship without trust. You dont question the person you love like that. Thats disrespect to the max.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 My point is you dont question your lover being unfaithfull until you find out what the **** is wrong with your vagina..if you have something than you start your accusation not before. now she says she got tested and she doesnt have anything LOOOOOOOOL
movingon12 Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Like I said, she doesn't trust you. It's not about respect.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 Like I said, she doesn't trust you. It's not about respect. There is no reason to not to trust me..I havent been flirting or talking to any girls. On the other hand, she was the one who was texting back and forth with her ex..he was saying things like "i wanna cum on you" sexual ****..even when she says she didnt do anything in those texts..i still dont believe her but i dont go around accusing her saying it might be you who transmitted to me..id get my facts straight, go see a doctor if i have it than id start accusing the person im in a relationship. she is still texting me if i had sex with this girl...its pathetic
movingon12 Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 You said she first started questioning you after the party and then did it again when she got sick. Could be a guilty conscience on her part, could be someone's been spreading rumours about you, could be she's paranoid for no reason, could be you've done or said something to make her doubt you. Though tbh I'm surprised you let the ex sexting thing slide but you dump her when she worries you've cheated.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 You said she first started questioning you after the party and then did it again when she got sick. Could be a guilty conscience on her part, could be someone's been spreading rumours about you, could be she's paranoid for no reason, could be you've done or said something to make her doubt you. Though tbh I'm surprised you let ex sexting thing slide but you dump her when she worries you've cheated. Yeah because i gave it a another shot. I dont let go so easily but when you accuse me with such a terrible thing...i ripped her a new one and left. There is no couldve been shouldve been..theres only one thing, ive loved this girl and i dont deserve to be treated this way..so i decided its better to let it go because this is not love..its madness and i have no power left in me to fight anymore. its just a coward way of accusing someone..you asked me the first time if i had sex with that girl i said no..but you question me again with giving you some shiet that has nothing to do with me..thats when you deserve to go..ive gving so many chances im done.
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