jcrew11 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 I think every guy needs to be able to be a "jerk" - meaning he can stand up for himself and not be a pushover to women. Don't let women control your life or let rejection bring you down. Being a "jerk" means having balls to be a "strong indepedent man" who can call his own shots, lead a fulfilling life, and not take crap from anyone. Have some strong opinions, be able to order a woman around, instead of having her order you around. Women want to be around fun, interesting guys. If you can have interesting opnions, thoughts, funny things to say, it piques their interest. Being "Cocky and Funny" is really the most simplest and straightforward approach to attracting women in a crowded room. If you are absolutely terrible with strange women, then just being "cocky and funny" will keep up the interest. Of course, a lot of people also find relationships by sharing hobbies, like yoga. But if you don't share any hobbies with women, then you need another way to hook em.
jcrew11 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 I have been told that confidence and assertiveness can help attract women. I also know of guys who are jerks to women. I want to know which is better, especially for college age girls. Would being both be best, or is is good to be just one? Try using some "Negging" which is light teasing of girls you want to date, or even average girls. Try to be playful and flirtatious, but not too harsh or mean. This shows you are interested in the girl. But before you do this, you really need to "clean up your looks" and improve your "speaking style" - If your appearance and demeanor are poor, it won't really matter your personality.
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