NYC-BigKat Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Um...I dont think there is. So I saw this cute girl outside taking out garbage & I stared at her & she started to stare back & then she went into the house & stared back behind the screen door. I really really think she's cute so I kept going back outside to see if she comes out again. I think she lives with her mother & little brothers & sisters 'cause I walked pass the house & there was some kids making noises. I'm gonna check on her again tomorrow.
Shaun-Dro Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Um...I dont think there is. So I saw this cute girl outside taking out garbage & I stared at her & she started to stare back & then she went into the house & stared back behind the screen door. I really really think she's cute so I kept going back outside to see if she comes out again. I think she lives with her mother & little brothers & sisters 'cause I walked pass the house & there was some kids making noises. I'm gonna check on her again tomorrow. I don't know if you're just trolling for attention or beginning to lose your mind because this thread is alarming as evidenced through lack of replies. 1
SmileFace Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 That it is stalking. Last time I checked stalking wasn't harmless. 1
ThaWholigan Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Dear Lord. OP, is there any diagnosis that we are unaware of?
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 Dear Lord. OP, is there any diagnosis that we are unaware of? How so? WHats wrong with looking at a pretty girl alot? She stared at me too & I stared at her so maybe she likes me a little bit u know. I'm not gonna do anything bad to her I just wanna talk to her but dont know what to say yet.
ThaWholigan Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 How so? WHats wrong with looking at a pretty girl alot? She stared at me too & I stared at her so maybe she likes me a little bit u know. I'm not gonna do anything bad to her I just wanna talk to her but dont know what to say yet. Well then go and talk to her. If she doesn't wanna know, then let it go. Don't stalk people, it's not harmless. If you looked at her, you looked at her, fair enough. When you see her, go talk to her and if she's not having it, leave her and don't stare at her.
skydiveaddict Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 So I saw this cute girl outside taking out garbage & I stared at her You're missing the opportunity. Next time, hang out in the garbage can. You're sure to catch her attention next time she throws out the trash. 5
SmileFace Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Well then go and talk to her. If she doesn't wanna know, then let it go. Don't stalk people, it's not harmless. If you looked at her, you looked at her, fair enough. When you see her, go talk to her and if she's not having it, leave her and don't stare at her. But what if she doesn't want to talk to me? I will just stare now. Then maybe make a schedule of when I can stare som emore. I could probably ask those kids that live there what her name is. Maybe google her? I should take some pics of her so I can practice talking to her right? Sorry...hehe anyway @ op. When you see her taking out the trash again - go offer to help. However if she always knows you as the eyes in the window - what good will that do? 1
Pyro Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 It may be harmless to you but don't assume that she feels the same way. Better make a move soon or she may get nervous and think the worst.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 I think the problem lies in where you draw the line at "harmless". Some people think going on facebook and seeing if your friends have any cute girls on their friends list is "stalking". If it is, I'd say it's pretty harmless. Or googling people you used to date or thought about dating or wanted to date but never had the nerve to ask out, etc. All various forms of "stalking" but all harmless. I think what you're doing is fine. It's likely to never score you a date with her, but I don't find it alarming...
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 But what if she doesn't want to talk to me? I will just stare now. Then maybe make a schedule of when I can stare som emore. I could probably ask those kids that live there what her name is. Maybe google her? I should take some pics of her so I can practice talking to her right? Sorry...hehe anyway @ op. When you see her taking out the trash again - go offer to help. However if she always knows you as the eyes in the window - what good will that do? I was looking out the window & I saw someone leaving her house but it wasn't her nope but thats okay. I will probably say hi to her & see what it does. I'm just so tired of getting rejected that I'm in no hurry.
SmileFace Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 I was looking out the window & I saw someone leaving her house but it wasn't her nope but thats okay. I will probably say hi to her & see what it does. I'm just so tired of getting rejected that I'm in no hurry. This may sound stupid and I know rejection sucks. However life goes on but always remember to fail fast. You never know how it may go with this girl - however next time you see her take a chance - "fail fast". Get it over with - don't dwell, you don't even know her. Just get to it.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 This may sound stupid and I know rejection sucks. However life goes on but always remember to fail fast. You never know how it may go with this girl - however next time you see her take a chance - "fail fast". Get it over with - don't dwell, you don't even know her. Just get to it. So um...am I suppose to just ask her out in front of everyone?! I cant do it nope I'm gonna look retarded & I cant have that happening to me. I'm just gonna look at her for a little more to see if she keeps looking at me then I'm gonna go over & ask her something to see what she says.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 Quit being a puss. The worst that can happen is she say "no," but she'll still respect your gusto. but.. you clearly have no gusto, or balls. you're basically hopeless and waiting for some random opportunity to happen. And the thing is, you might not even like this girl, so you're wasting your life. I feel for you. Thats really really mean . I asked out lots of girls & its always no 'cause I used to ask them out real fast so now I'm trying to take my time & not ask them out really fast & I get castrated for it .
Ross MwcFan Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Quit being a puss. The worst that can happen is she say "no," but she'll still respect your gusto. but.. you clearly have no gusto, or balls. you're basically hopeless and waiting for some random opportunity to happen. And the thing is, you might not even like this girl, so you're wasting your life. I feel for you. How does a guy 'quit being a puss'?
skydiveaddict Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 (edited) How does a guy 'quit being a puss'? By becoming your own man. Take responsibility for yourself, be the man you know you can be. Like the song says: "I used to follow, yea that's true. But my following days are over. Now I just gotta follow through..." (apologies to H-50 for thread jack) Edited November 25, 2012 by skydiveaddict
Shaun-Dro Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Thats really really mean . I asked out lots of girls & its always no 'cause I used to ask them out real fast so now I'm trying to take my time & not ask them out really fast & I get castrated for it . No one's castrating you for anything. There's an immense difference between sitting there and staring at a woman and taking action. Not asking this young lady out fast but instead just studying her is pointless and it will only make you appear weirder than you already are.
ssd360 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Knock on her door and introduce yourself and say I just wanted to be a friendly neighbor havn't seen you around before and leave it at that. So that the next time you see her you already opened and introduced yourself so the next steps will be easier from there.
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