CM2009 Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I currently live in Las Vegas, NV and I'm originally from Charlotte, NC. I've been talking to this young lady who lives back in my home city for about 4 months and conversations have gotten good and heavy. We started out as friends and and started to gain feelings towards each other. We have so much in common it is scary, I told her that I will be back in Charlotte for good in January because I'm being transferred back through my job. So my dilemma I'm back in town for thanksgiving weekend and we had went out to the movies yesterday and for some reason I didn't feel a cool vibe coming from her which left me puzzled, so we had a talk today and she said she felt we didn't vibe romantically but she is up for giving it another try when I move back in January. So I was invited to her brother's birthday party (before the date) and I'm debating on going because she's gonna be hosting the party so we won't have much time to spend but I do want to go because anytime I may get with her will be a plus. So let me know LS, what should be the course of action? Ask as many questions as you want because this is important to me, hope to hear from you soon....
FitChick Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Let her see you interacting with her friends and family, and make them all like you so that when she asks their opinions, it will all be positive. When you go back to Vegas, get yourself in top shape so that when she sees you again in January, she won't be able to keep her hands off of you. 3
Author CM2009 Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 Defiantly, that's what I was initially thinking about. Go enjoy myself, meet her family and friends but trying to make it obvious.. But yes when I get back home I will get in better shape then I am now...
dasein Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Go and have fun. Be polite and friendly to her, but that's it, and find some other women there to talk to. Good luck.
mortensorchid Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 I'd go to the party as well, be nice to everyone and leave yourself open to other women should they be there. If you're getting a certain unsure vibe off of her, then she'll know for sure how she feels about you.
CptObvious Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Let her see you interacting with her friends and family, and make them all like you so that when she asks their opinions, it will all be positive. When you go back to Vegas, get yourself in top shape so that when she sees you again in January, she won't be able to keep her hands off of you. Skip step 1 Spend double the time and effort on step 2 (roids not optional)
Author CM2009 Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 Skip step 1 Spend double the time and effort on step 2 (roids not optional) Hahaha nah no roids here!!!!
Author CM2009 Posted November 25, 2012 Author Posted November 25, 2012 Good thing is she still might be interested, we talked a little bit after the party and she stated that she wants to try again but when I move back home for good. So I'll take and see what happens, but I did go to the party and met a lot of her friends and had a great time. Her friends were chatting to me how great of woman she is (im already aware of that lol) We talked a couple times during because she was hosting and was running around, so we'll just wait and see....
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