awesomesauce Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I'm single now, but my past ex only knew about one of my partners when I have had others. I was insecure then when we talked about it and I didn't want her to think anything of me so I lied the one and only time. Any who that's not the problem, I'm wondering for future relationships should I be open about how many people I have been with. Also what if two of those people were sisters lol just wondering? To make a long story short, I was 16 got with one sister and then when I was 18 the other one wanted to get with me. I do regret this, as to it is very low standards and its something I wish I could take back and only my one true guy best friend knows about it. I'm just kinda confused and depressed at the moment and I'm trying to figure everything out. Thank you for listening and please don't be to harsh lol.
todreaminblue Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I'm single now, but my past ex only knew about one of my partners when I have had others. I was insecure then when we talked about it and I didn't want her to think anything of me so I lied the one and only time. Any who that's not the problem, I'm wondering for future relationships should I be open about how many people I have been with. Also what if two of those people were sisters lol just wondering? To make a long story short, I was 16 got with one sister and then when I was 18 the other one wanted to get with me. I do regret this, as to it is very low standards and its something I wish I could take back and only my one true guy best friend knows about it. I'm just kinda confused and depressed at the moment and I'm trying to figure everything out. Thank you for listening and please don't be to harsh lol. You made a mistake, a lot of people aren't honest when it comes to telling their partners about sexual history they gloss over the negatives, and think nothing of it, I like to be honest, but then i accept people who make mistakes, some people would walk away, you tell what you heart wants to tell, i find lying though, bites you when you least expect it.....past is past, woudl you really want to be with someone who judges you on it, i find people who judge others, to be the most hypocritical but that's my personal opinion.....i suggest honesty but that is only because it is my policy....you do what is best for you....i wish you luck.......deb
veggirl Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 Don't ask, don't tell, dude. Seriously how old are you, only kids ask for that info imo. All someone needs to know is if you are CLEAN. If they want to know your "#" look at them like and say "I'm not sure why you would even ask that. I have a clean bill of health if that is why you are asking." 2 sisters, 2 yrs apart... I mean who cares? Seriously not a big deal, esp when you were a teenager. I can't imagine anyone giving a s.hit about that. You'll save yourself a lot of trouble and anxiety if you just stick with don't ask, don't tell when it comes to the #
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