casualtyoflove Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 i need help...im so depressed n i cant take the pain anymore..ive been in love with this guy for nearly 2 years...we broke up last week..he dumped me for another girl.. ive thought bout it..n i want him back...the other girl does not know bout me..she thinks we broke up b4 she started dating him... should i tell her the truth..he begged me not 2 he says he loves me..but he needs to b with her(?)...im so confused n alone...pls help me...how can i get him back..i will do anything...i love him so much..i have broken up with 2 guys b4 (longer relationships) but i never felt this way... i know i really love him...my heart hurts so much....i havent eaten in days...i feel like im walking around with a dagger in my heart....i need help thats why i joint up this site...pls help...
amanda25 Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 Originally posted by casualtyoflove i need help...im so depressed n i cant take the pain anymore..ive been in love with this guy for nearly 2 years...we broke up last week..he dumped me for another girl.. Sorry, but if he dumped you for another girl, I doubt he loved you to begin with..Love is supposed to be happy, fun,good..Not hurt and misreble.... ive thought bout it..n i want him back...the other girl does not know bout me..she thinks we broke up b4 she started dating him... should i tell her the truth..he begged me not 2 What good is it going to do to tell her?? So that she MAY leave him and he will go find someone else, and still do you wrong? What would that solve? he says he loves me..but he needs to b with her(?)...im so confused n alone...pls help me...how can i get him back..i will do anything...i love him so much..i have broken up with 2 guys b4 (longer relationships) but i never felt this way... He needs to be with her?? If he loves you as he says, then he would NEED to be with you..... i know i really love him...my heart hurts so much....i havent eaten in days...i feel like im walking around with a dagger in my heart....i need help thats why i joint up this site...pls help... Ive been hurt, more than once, and probably done some hurting, as well as Im sure most people would agree....Give it time, you will heal, im sure...YOu deserve so much better than this guy, why play 2nds? You seem like you have alot of heart to give, give it to someone who will cherish it.. Good Luck
kellydontwanttasleep Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 get on with your life and stop hanging onto the past. one thing you'll find lots of is guys, you can never run out of them.
Author casualtyoflove Posted August 9, 2004 Author Posted August 9, 2004 thanx 4 the advice...honestly...i dont know what i was expecting...mayb a get him back formula..is that even possible?.... i have made mistakes b4...i have been confused b4...i have hurt sum1 b4...thats why i feel like i can forgive him....i can sense that i can get him back...but i dont know how to play the game...i never was good at that...
Girlie Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 If you have to come up with a formula to get this guy, you are wasting your time on him. Don't fool yourself into believing he loves you just because he said so. It sounds like those are pretty empty words in light of the situation. Probably best to do what you can to move on with your life.
littleflowerpot Posted August 10, 2004 Posted August 10, 2004 everyone is right: he's not worthy of you. he's a jerk and you will in time get over him. but i know right now you hurt like a fire in your heart and i'm very sorry. sometimes it helps some of us to come here and just talk about it.
Author casualtyoflove Posted August 10, 2004 Author Posted August 10, 2004 i know u r all right....thank u...its amazing how sum1 who loves me does not care bout my feelings...but strangers from all over d world..have such kind words..thaank u...god bless...
Papillon Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 Unless you and your ex share a rare tissue type compatibility, and you need a lung transplant, then you don't need him. You don't need anyone.
frogprinz29 Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 Sorry you've become another casualty. I don't mean to be insensitive at all, but the guy made his decision and unfortunately for you heart, it's not with you. He may care for you and love you in some way but he has begun to move on. Now you're left with picking yourself up. We've all been through this before and have made it through for the wiser, better, and stronger. It's all about time now and your heart and spirit will heal. Just hang in there. You'll be able to love again, and it'll be better.
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Originally posted by casualtyoflove thanx 4 the advice...honestly...i dont know what i was expecting...mayb a get him back formula..is that even possible?.... i have made mistakes b4...i have been confused b4...i have hurt sum1 b4...thats why i feel like i can forgive him....i can sense that i can get him back...but i dont know how to play the game...i never was good at that... You cannot force someone into liking and/or loving you. It's only obvious he does not care about you or he would not have left you for another girl!! Why would you want that a**h**e back in your life. I know it hurts but you will get over him in time! If he would care he would have never left in the 1st place!
treegirl Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Move on! He's the one that threw you away for some other girl... that's his problem. Go out and find someone who is going to respect you more!!! Good luck Love TreeGirl xoxo
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