SamsonAtlas Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 A few days ago I found out my girlfriend cheated on me last month at a work party with a mutual acquaintance that she works with and now she thinks she's pregnant. I found out be reading a text where she was talking to her friend about it and when I asked she admitted to me and that she had had one positive and negative pregnancy test. The guy she did it with has already taken off, he has a girlfriend of his own. So I'm left with a cheating girlfriend who might be pregnant and no matter how I look at it, I'll feel like a jerk if i leave her a hundred percent alone and pregnant.
Bryanp Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 You cannot be serious. Why in the world would you stay with a girlfriend who had no problem cheating behind your back, putting your health at risk for STD's (did not even bother to use a condom) and is now probably pregnant with another man's baby. You would have to be an absolute masochist to stay with her and support her and her baby. Time to move on and find someone you can trust and truly loves you. Don't be a fool. You also have no idea if she has done this before. 1
somedude81 Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 Leaving because your girl is having another man's baby is the absolute best reason to leave a woman out of all the reasons that ever existed. 5
USMCHokie Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I sincerely hope that she's pregnant with the other dude's kid and the dude ditches her. And I hope even more that you ditch her. 3
road Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 Leaving because your girl is having another man's baby is the absolute best reason to leave a woman out of all the reasons that ever existed. Exactly that. When the OC is born make sure you have a DNA test done to prove paternity before your name goes on the BC.
aed Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 Wow, run from this girl! Get a DNA-test and when it's is your child take a good lawyer and ask for co-parenting arrangement. and find a good girl and when your child is with you let him or her experience truly loving family and hope he or she will also find that by your ex.
soccerrprp Posted November 25, 2012 Posted November 25, 2012 1. Yes, if pregnant, get a paternity test ASAP. 2. If not yours, leave her and let her deal with her own problems. Don't ruin your life and complicate the relationship further by staying. You deserve someone better! 3. If not yours, leave her. Good luck!
coltsfan1 Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Time to get a new girl friend. I would leave and tell her that you are 100% willing to get a DNA test once the child is born. If its yours be a man and raise your child if it's not RUN for the hills!!!! One way or the other NEVER EVER give this girl another chance with you. Don't have to hate her but be smart and let her go!!!
freetolove Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 I would leave her. because either way you will resend it. i feel so bad for you =( tell her to get an abortion, then leave her. she made a horrible mistake =(
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