Would you taks an ex back?

[Biscous]

She said she went through the GIGS upon breaking up with you, apologized, realized she ****ed up and has made efforts to get back in your life. How would you feel?

 

I met my ex of over a year during Thanksgiving. We reconciled some. I asked her hard and painful questions. She said to me "please take me back". We were long distance part of our relationship and part of the reason she broke up with me was the fact that she got cold feet and didn't move out with me. Five months later we talk. Things seem the way they used to but I'm still guarded. Not sure what to do if she came to my doorstep. I am just curious because a lot of people say exes are exes for a reason...I also question it being I was the onedumped

[Feelingthechill]

There are 6 billion of us in this world, there can't be one hard and fast rule when it comes to exes, other than this: take it slow. Protect yourself, gather more information, which is critical to making the right decision. It won't be easy, but nothing worth getting in life is ever easy to obtain.

[Tashana]

At the end of the day the saying exes are exes for a reason doesn't really conclude anything. It all comes down to whether are not you still love her and want to risk your feelings to be with her again. Ask yourself what did you felt when she asked you to take her back? Were you somewhat happy? Do you still want to reconnect?

[aussietigerwolf]

In your case I'd guess the ex would have to prove they really wanted to be with me this time

[KatZee]

I personally would never take my ex back.

 

Even if he came to me saying, "I messed up! I made a mistake! I love you and want you back!"

 

He lied to me far too much within the relationship. He cheated on me and made a fool of me for years. There is something fundamentally wrong with my ex. I think he's either emotionally unavailable or a narcissistic sociopath.

 

Anything he'd ever say to me would not be believed. He doesn't speak truth, he only says what you want to hear, so I know beyond a shadow of a doubt anything he said would be to bait me and I know he'd wind up pulling the same s.hit down the line.