lynngv Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I am talking ending the marriage,my husband Mikey and I are currently seperated for 5 monthes now.My husband and I have been married for 8 years,it has been rocky since this year.We had a huge arguement in July,he went to jail for it throwing a plate at me leaving a gash on my forehead.Problem is he has no effort to work this out and I suspect he has been cheating on me.I smelled other women's purfume on his clothes and he came home very late at night.He has cheated on me in the past,forgave him once.Tells me that he does not love me anymore and our sex life is boring.I seen my lawyer on Tuesday.My parents say he needs to go and file for divorce.My husband has been putting me down too calling me worthless and making it worse.I was diagnosed with PTSD a couple weeks ago,it is under control with medication and have been seeing a therapist for this.My friends say he needs to go for the way he has been treating me.Should I listen to my friends and parents?I feel working things out is not going to happen,he wants to give up on the marriage.I don't need my life to get worse anymore.My parents and friends have cheered me up saying I am not worthless and they are right.
cheerfuldoer Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 He has demonstrated violence and infidelity. You think he is seeing someone now? Trust your family and friends and leave. If your life with him has caused you to suffer from PTSD, you are in a bad situation. Please be careful. You need to go file, don't wait for him to do it.
Author lynngv Posted November 24, 2012 Author Posted November 24, 2012 I am going to file for divorce on Monday,I had enough of it.He confessed to me that he cheated on me 3 years ago with 3 other women,he has a child with one of them.I did hire a private investigator last month,saw him with 2 other women going to a hotel room and he was making out with them.Showed me the video and made me sick.His sister said that he has 3 new girlfriends and claims he is single,told me this.He comes back next month and going to get a surprise,I am going to kick his butt out for good.My husband has been abusive to me for the last 3 years,the therapist I am seeing whom diagnosed me with PTSD said that triggered the PTSD.I was getting nightmares not sleeping very well and not being myself.The divorce,one part will be easy.Have no kids with him.
Balzac Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I don't get this part: "he comes back next month...."????
Author lynngv Posted November 24, 2012 Author Posted November 24, 2012 He comes back on December 1st,the seperation was done in court and the judge ordered it.
shallow Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 Yes, I would absolutely leave him. He does not love you, and continues to disrespect you and put you down. He has a history of violence and infidelity. He's given you every reason in the book to leave. Have respect for yourself and get out of this relationship as quickly as you can.
Author lynngv Posted November 24, 2012 Author Posted November 24, 2012 When he comes back,I am going to tell him pack his things and leave.The divorce papers will be on the table with a pen on hand.I am going to the courthouse and file the papers for divorce on Monday.One plan is to clean him out for the disrespect,putting me down,the cheating and the violence he did to me.
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