Chrisal23 Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 Hi Good evening everyone, First off this is a great forum and I really need some advice at the moment since I'm totally clueless about my situation. So my gf broke up with me a few days ago and honestly it didn't hurt at first but now I'm starting to feel it. She broke up with me because she said that I put her aside and that I don't pay attention to her and that she doesn't want to be second place. I'm really frustrated because we have been in an on and off relationship for almost 3 years now. I really do feel that I love her but after this break up I don't know what to think. She told me that she didn't regret the break up that it was a way for her to get my attention. I told her that there were different ways to get my attention and that communication was important to do before breaking up just to get my attention. She claimed that I would've not listened, and while I sorta agree I still feel like it wasn't the right choice. I honestly have my own complaints but its pointless to keep repeating them since we would argue even more. We talked yesterday and she said she loved me and to make a choice. The choices were either to be with her or to not be with her at all. I feel like im cornered because I still feel bad about the break up and I have to choose. I haven't spoke to her all day today but I feel bad. Someone please advice me because I don't know what is the right choice. A part of me feels relieved about the stress other breaking up with me , but another part of me is really scared to loose her.
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