Vs76 Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 My boyfriend is 25 and he lost a brother about 10 years ago. Needless to say his family is very close. I feel like i want to break up with him. I dont no if im jealous or what. Well his mom kind of lost it after her son passed but its like she hindered her other kids. Its like his siblings just need him all day everyday. His older brother drinks heavily and my boyfriend often has to fight because of his mouth. Its like every time he goes off they have to call my boyfriend to calm him down. The whole family texts and calls each other all day every day. If its not his brother its his sister. If we are in the middle of making love his brother will come knock on the door and he will stop to get up and see what he needs. Its nothing for them to get naked and walk around each other. My boyfriend literally runs as soon as they call. Its just driving me crazy he lets them use my clothes...his clothes deodorant or whatever. They are so close its sickening or am i over reacting. It was like i moved to get away from then but he invites them to spend the night at least three days a week. Im just tired it may be petty but it has ruined our six year relationship. He will even let me drive an hour away to go home by myself just because his family misses him. Pray for me
moveONorStay Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 Sounds like a difficult one...have you tried speaking to him? It seems like he is very loyal and that should be commended...he's likely to be very loyal to you as well and you can't really fault that. I'd think carefully about ending it. Speak to him and explain how you feel.
Stillalive1 Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 Tell him exactly how u feel,don't tell us,he is not in a very nice situation,explain him how could he meet your needings,talk with him with your heart in your hand,don't b aggressive when u explain.
Author Vs76 Posted November 24, 2012 Author Posted November 24, 2012 I have explained to him many times but its like it never ends. One night for instance his brother got drunk and came in the room and laid on top of me while my boyfriend was beside me and i woke my boyfriend up because he wouldnt move all my boyfriend said eas man get up. He tries kissing me in my mouth and rubbing his privates up against me and its strange because my boyfriend sees but overlooks. Its like his family does no wrong. His niece shoplifts and i will be like u need to talk to her because she looks up to u and he will say no she is fine. He is loyal to them but they are all driving me insane. If his mom calls me a "B" and i put her in her place he be like u better leave my moma alone. I just dont know its a very dysfuncyional family. His older sister squats and pees anywhere in public and im embarrassed while all they can say is nobody better not say nothing to her. Its just crazy.
Balzac Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 "I just dont know its a very dysfuncyional family" What causes you to question your evaluation?
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