He's been trying to get into contact with my friends

[Love_sick_me]

This is probably the wrong spot to ask the question, but it seems like it's the best fit. Anyway, he has been asking a lot of my friends who he hasn't been talking to to hang out with him. All my friends are really suspicious of it, because he never had close friendships with them. Whenever he sees a friend of my he always tries to ask about me. We all think there are some ulterior motives.

 

Background: It's been a year since our break up, and I think he's seeing someone. I blocked his emails, facebook, and all social media. I changed my number twice, and moved since we were in contact last. It's safe to say he has no way to get in contact with me.

 

My question is...should I tell my friends to not say anything about me? or at least tell them to not give anything away? I just don't want him to know anything that I am doing. I want him to leave me alone. It sort of makes me sick in my stomach whenever my friends tell me that he's been asking about me. At the same time, I don't want my friends to stop hanging out with him because of me.

Edited November 23, 2012 by Love_sick_me

[not-a-drive-by]

If they want to hang out, let them. If you don't want to hear about him from your friends, just simply tell them not to mention about him around you. Also let them know to respect your privacy and don't pass on details about you to your ex. Don't try to interpret his actions.