ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I posted about this guy before he is a Marine and he is stationed somewhere all top secret and we chat on the computer and on the phone all the time, we met in HS my junior year and lost contact, then started talking a little more after graduation then he went to the Marines and I hadn't talked to him until I found him on FB like a month ago and we talk and stuff. Anyway we both talk about everything he said he is starting to like me, and I told him I think I feel the same way and I am like all :love::love:. He doesn't come home for months but he said when he comes back he definitely wants to spend the day with me. I feel like I am liking him way too much though, I constantly want to text him or if he is on FB I always want to message him but I don't want to constantly initiate. He used to initiate and now he hasn't and idk if I am just being paranoid because at first it didn't matter because I wasn't CONSTANTLY looking to talk to him, but now I am lol can you ask someone to initiate? I kind of want to just not think about him at all. I need constant distractions to keep me from thinking of men lol
Tara247 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 (edited) Isn't this the same guy that convinced you to send him a video of you orgasming or something like that? Don't ask him to initiate. If he was into you, he would be initiating on his own. He's in the marines, so say you two got into a relationship, you wouldn't even hardly see him or know what he was doing while he was away from you. Why do you want a relationship like that? He is not initiating contact, I would think that would tell you that he's not all that eager about you. He says he wants to see you for a day when he gets back into town. I'll bet he wants sex from you, then he leaves to go back to whereever he's stationed. Is that what you want? Don't let this guy use you. Sounds like your typical scumag to me. You need to stop chasing all these losers. Edited November 23, 2012 by Tara247 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Isn't this the same guy that convinced you to send him a video of you orgasming or something like that? Don't ask him to initiate. If he was into you, he would be initiating on his own. He's in the marines, so say you two got into a relationship, you wouldn't even hardly see him or know what he was doing while he was away from you. Why do you want a relationship like that? He is not initiating contact, I would think that would tell you that he's not all that eager about you. He says he wants to see you for a day when he gets back into town. I'll bet he wants sex from you, then he leaves to go back to whereever he's stationed. Is that what you want? Don't let this guy use you. Sounds like your typical scumag to me. You need to stop chasing all these losers. He is a really nice guy, but I admit I shouldn't have done that. I don't know, I figured if I dated someone (like him) long distance then at least I would know I was with someone and then we would be committed to each other but I wouldn't be with him everyday so I couldn't be clingy or push him away. I always do that in relationships so maybe with long distance I won't? But I refuse to meet someone online and do long distance because you could have a catfish type situation. I want to date someone I either know already or have met in a real place that isn't online And dating a Marine is like my DREAM!
Tara247 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 You need to stop being no naive. This "marine" just wants to screw you when he comes into town. Are you going to let him use you for sex? If you want to find out if he likes you, don't give him sex when he comes into town. Then when he goes back, watch how much he initiates contact with you. That will tell you what you need to know.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 (edited) You need to stop being no naive. This "marine" just wants to screw you when he comes into town. Are you going to let him use you for sex? If you want to find out if he likes you, don't give him sex when he comes into town. Then when he goes back, watch how much he initiates contact with you. That will tell you what you need to know. I mean that is months from now when he comes back so I will worry about that when it happens. I doubt we will even do it, he and I have been planning sex with eachother since we were in HS lol But I guess I will just give up on this one too! **** this sucks lol it is Christmas time and I need a boyfriend! Edited November 23, 2012 by ImperfectionisBeauty
Tara247 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Why don't you go find some single, decent guys to date then? If you want to have sex with the marine when he gets back, then do it. However, like I said, pay attention to how much he initiates contact before he comes back.
Tara247 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Also, with the marine, if you do have sex with him, you better be worrying about Herpes.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Also, with the marine, if you do have sex with him, you better be worrying about Herpes. Why? Do Marines have herpes? He said the military tests him every 3 months
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Why don't you go find some single, decent guys to date then? If you want to have sex with the marine when he gets back, then do it. However, like I said, pay attention to how much he initiates contact before he comes back. I don't know I wish he would just fall in love with me today and then when he comes back marry me and we can just be married and move to a base and live happily ever after. Ideally that is what would happen :/ but it's pretty doubtful lol
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