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Ok, pretend this happened to you.

 

You make a subtle play for a girl, she declines. Then she goes and tells some gfs your too short (5'9" she is 5'7") and makes a joke about you having a crush on her in front of other coworkers and yourself. Then she hooks up with a loser, self-serving player. I say loser because he has no education or job skills, lives with a girlfriend who is the mother of his two daughters but refuses to marry her although he calls her his wife when he talks about her. He tells other girls he has a 'special' arrangement so he can see other girls. Everything about this guy is sexually referenced. He is a jerk, but all the girls like him for his playful attitude. After he hooked up with your girl, he then comes to your office, gets right up in your face and says, "I did it and there is nothing you can do about it." just to stroke his ego. (Although he didn't say 'her' it is clear to you from the context of the situation what he meant, but this way you can't hit him. He also tries to cut you down in front of her and she does not mind. All this happens at work becuase your an idiot and don't know better.

 

However, now, a year later she comes to you saying this guy is a zero and wants to know if you still care for her? She is serious.

 

You still have feelings for her, but you don't know if she can be trusted. What would you do?

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Ok, pretend this happened to you.

 

You make a subtle play for a girl, she declines. Then she goes and tells some gfs your too short (5'9" she is 5'7") and makes a joke about you having a crush on her in front of other coworkers and yourself. Then she hooks up with a loser, self-serving player. I say loser because he has no education or job skills, lives with a girlfriend who is the mother of his two daughters but refuses to marry her although he calls her his wife when he talks about her. He tells other girls he has a 'special' arrangement so he can see other girls. Everything about this guy is sexually referenced. He is a jerk, but all the girls like him for his playful attitude. After he hooked up with your girl, he then comes to your office, gets right up in your face and says, "I did it and there is nothing you can do about it." just to stroke his ego. (Although he didn't say 'her' it is clear to you from the context of the situation what he meant, but this way you can't hit him. He also tries to cut you down in front of her and she does not mind. All this happens at work becuase your an idiot and don't know better.

 

However, now, a year later she comes to you saying this guy is a zero and wants to know if you still care for her? She is serious.

 

You still have feelings for her, but you don't know if she can be trusted. What would you do?

Politely decline and quietly remove yourself from the situation completely.

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