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If you're a white guy would you be more likely to date a mixed girl or black??


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What about a black girl that looks mixed?

 

Just wondering? I always wondered if mixed people have more options than if you're black and want to date white.?

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Mixed birds do it a lot more for me.

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Mixed birds do it a lot more for me.

 

Lol ok so do I look mixed?

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Lol ok so do I look mixed?

 

From what I remember of your picture, I don't think you did look mixed. Maybe I'm just not remembering the pic right though.

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From what I remember of your picture, I don't think you did look mixed. Maybe I'm just not remembering the pic right though.

 

I don't think I look mixed but people ask me.. I used to try to pass but that's stupid so I stopped

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Everyone has preferences. Often it's about the total package, not just race though. I'm black. There's no question in anyone's mind about my race. I'm surprised by the range of guys who do ask me out. It's a veritable United Nations of guys. Still the vast majority who ask me out (and I'm asked out a lot) are white (>95%), followed by Asian (Chinese, Japanese, Indian) and then black. In many cases, I would never have guessed I would be a guy's type until he asks.

 

My dating patterns and my serious relationships all reflect who asks me out. I've had one serious relationship with someone black (now about 10 years ago, and we were engaged), an Arab-American (also about 10 years ago), and one with a Chinese guy (about 5 years ago, but it turned out he'd liked me all through college and grad school when we were younger, but didn't think I would say yes). All my other serious relationships have involved white guys (American, Canadian, European and include 2 engagements). I've never been married, no kids.

 

It's all good. I do have very mild preferences (tall, educated, well-travelled, similar career success to mine), but I certainly don't have a type per se. For me it's the intangibles that matter most. Is he kind? Does he value me? Is he considerate and thoughtful? Do we share similar goals? Do we click? I'm just looking for a nice guy with whom I shared deep love, sexual attraction, respect and admiration, and a desire to spend the rest of our lives together. That's all. Race for me personally is irrelevant. Other things are just far more important to me in finding the right long-term partner. For most of the guys I date, they're attracted to my looks first, and stay because of the rest of the package.

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Im very light skin light eyes

I often attract darker skin mixes

 

Mainly women with tan skin dark and amber

Colored eyes...

 

Im a redhead with green eyes...

Im pretty much done with white chicks..

 

I have a date sat with a halfspanish black

Mix....

met online she specifically requested green eyes

Light skin in her profile...

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I'm black, ex was white

 

I attract mostly white...black guys say I'm too skinny

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Mixed, brown, dark brown, don't care.

 

Hot is hot.

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I'm mixed and I attract mostly white and Indian guys--I get confused for Indian a lot.

 

My current boyfriend is white. He had been with a black woman prior to me. Usually with the white guys I date, I'm their first foray into dating someone brown-skinned. Could be because I'm more racially/ethnically ambiguous. Most people don't guess I'm mixed.

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I'm black, and obviously so. And most of the time people interested in me are non-black. Arab, Indian, Middle Eastern, White, Latino, Filipino Occasionally East Asian.

 

Generally speaking I attract mostly "brown" men, then black men. When I was younger ist was more white guys, a little less so lately.

 

Don't worry about what type likes you. Because you never know. Just work on being your best you.

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