Mariexo Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I met this guy, he was everything I have ever wanted. We were the perfect couple. But, he just came out of a three year relationship with someone. They lived together at a point, had a bank account, and a cat. (that's like a child!) He would mention his ex here and there. He was older, I didn't want to make a big deal about it, I wanted to be mature about it. But the night he broke up with me because he's been having doubts and wasn't over his ex. I was crushed, he was my first for a lot of things. He told me we were going to get married, and he told me not to leave a week before we ended, and two days before was still talking about getting a place. It's been a month, and I've been trying to be his friend, but he makes it seem like he hates me. I was talking to his friend the other day, and he was telling me that my ex boyfriend still had feelings for his ex, but shes dating someone new. I'm hoping if I give him time me and him will work out. I think about him everyday, I am at such a loss. It was so perfect, and now it's gone.
Meetvirginia Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Nothing is ever as "perfect" as it seems. You do not want to be someones second choice,you are better than that. I know it's painful,but i speak from experience when i say that only time will make things better. Imo, stop contacting him in any shape or form and at the very least this may make him begin to wonder why you aren't chasing him anymore...and if at some point he does contact you,i hope by that time you have realized you deserve better treatment and have the strength to say no to this guy.
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