SmileFace Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 She just doesn't like her because of the abortion thread. A bit petty if you ask me. Yes, I clock stuff like that Oh, you virgo, you -- lol Anyway I said what I had to say to TS ... All the best!! I will step away from your thread now with this off topicness. 2
Author tigressA Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 This story made my weekend! :hugs Aw, thanks Easy. I'm so glad I could do that for you. And just so you know, despite being taken by a good man, I still crush on you. 2
xpaperxcutx Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Good to hear T. But take it easy okay? I think if both party's willing, you guys can definitely work on the distance issue. 1
Gold Pile Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Tigress, You've always seemed a nice sort who isn't out to harm anyone. So I'm happy that you're happy. While advising all due caution, I hope everything continues to go well. PS: i miss your pretty pictures. 2
Author tigressA Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Tigress, You've always seemed a nice sort who isn't out to harm anyone. So I'm happy that you're happy. While advising all due caution, I hope everything continues to go well. PS: i miss your pretty pictures. I added you to my contacts so you can see some. Thanks, GP. 1
Arasae Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Sooo normally I'm just a lurker, but this experience was extremely close to mine. OP, I hope this goes well! It sounds like a rush--how exciting! I wish you the best. Just a head's up, though, a very, very similar thing happened to me--met a charming, intelligent, handsome gentleman on OKC, we met up, it was instant chemistry like I'd never felt. I remember writing in my journal that, "this was it. It's him. I have no doubt," and similar things because that feeling was so. strong. One month later, Mr. Salsa-Dancing-Romantic-Chemistry turned out to love himself more than he could ever love anyone else. He didn't display that side of himself up until that point. He worked out obsessively and never made time. He was a complete, total, "I'm-Mr-Always-Right," and I completely ignored it for four more months because I kept clinging to the person he presented himself to be that first month, believing as hard as I could in "that chemistry," and "the one." I suppose the moral of the story is this--keep your eyes open. I truly hope that he is a fantastic, wonderful, incredible man because you deserve every happiness! But just know that, sometimes (not always!), people aren't always what they seem. But, then again, I'm about to get married to a high school crush where a relationship should have been impossible--and I knew THEN that there was something about him, like that we were meant to be together. So.. I hope that you are in a similar position! Much love, lady. 5
Janesays Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 You know, normally I'd say this was way too quick, but.... I had a friend who met a guy and exactly 1 month later they were engaged to be married. Everyone thought they were crazy, but they got married a few months after that. It's going on 10 years now, with 2 children, and they're both still very happy. So, in the end, what does anyone REALLY know about time? Good luck. 5
Arasae Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Did I date you?! I don't think so--but still! Don't be that guy! Ha..
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Anyway I said good luck isn't that enough I'm not going to kiss someone's butt sorry.. Yeah you said good luck with a sarcastic roll the eyes emoticon. Sorry, but that's hardly sincere.
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Yeah you said good luck with a sarcastic roll the eyes emoticon. Sorry, but that's hardly sincere. Oh sorry I didn't know I wasn't allowed to use emotion icons... Forgive me :rolleyes:
FitChick Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I'd strongly suggest comparing your two natal charts to see if your Venus opposes or squares his Pluto and/or Uranus. I've just experienced both with one particular man who was totally not my type and I am dealing with the aftermath. Next time I spot something similar with another man, I will run a mile!
Yookie Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Good luck Tigress. No matter what happens going forward, you will always have the pleasant memory of this magical weekend. 5
Author tigressA Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 I'd strongly suggest comparing your two natal charts to see if your Venus opposes or squares his Pluto and/or Uranus. I've just experienced both with one particular man who was totally not my type and I am dealing with the aftermath. Next time I spot something similar with another man, I will run a mile! I'm not THAT into astrology. I wouldn't be able to figure that out. Perhaps that's a matter I can take to Wholigan? Thanks for the input, FitChick.
Minka333 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 (edited) I like the way you write your post. It's beautiful..it's as if i could feel your emotions jump out of the page. Personally, i know how you feel. Sometimes there are things that are hard to explain to people who haven't experienced this. I felt that way with my bf since day one and almost 2 yrs later, the feelings just keeps getting stronger. I had lots of relationships before but this one hit me like a ton of brick..it was strange, different and surreal. Just go with the flow and enjoy this very wonderful feeling...life will never be the same again... Edited November 23, 2012 by Minka333 1
Mrlonelyone Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I hope it works out for you. Don't worry about the future, just enjoy the ride and the roller coaster. 2
Woggle Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I really am happy for you. This is how it happened for me seven years ago on that boardwalk bench and we are still doing great. Not to be a cynic or anything but make sure this isn't just new love feeling before you dive head first in. I really hope it is not but run all your matters of your heart through your head before you make decisions. 3
ThaWholigan Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I'm not THAT into astrology. I wouldn't be able to figure that out. Perhaps that's a matter I can take to Wholigan? Thanks for the input, FitChick. Check your inbox 1
xxoo Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Every great love story starts with falling in love. Not all experiences of falling in love result a great love story....but you can't have one at all without that first step! Congrats on opening up, and I hope it continues to be magical 9
todreaminblue Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I am happy for you tigress, this post made me smile.....love is all about risk whether you have known the person all your life or ten days there are no guarantees for either way that your heart might not be broken as a result of falling for someone......you have gone into this with your eyes open and your heart wants what it wants...i hope your heart stays whole and i wish you much happiness in love......it is better to have loved and be loved no matter the outcome than never loved or been loved at all....hugs to ya .....deb 2
Eternal Sunshine Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 This is the way I always imagined it would happen to me. I would just know and it would be magical right away. All those "slowly falling in love" stories seem like settling to me. Enjoy T 2
Tara247 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Op, just be careful, ok? You cannot know someone over the course of 10 days, no matter how much you think you do. 2
Author tigressA Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 Just a little adorableness update. We had a Skype convo earlier, first time in days we'd had even a voice conversation; he was rather disconnected over the holiday due to his location (we kept in contact via occasional text when he could get service). He was telling me how quiet his holiday was and how his dad and grandma did most of the talking; he was off in the corner having imaginary conversations with me. He had scheduled a weekend next month to have a friend of his come visit but then realized we wouldn't see each other for 3 weekends in a row if that visit were to take place (scheduled family visits) so he cancelled it. After the holiday season is over we'll basically be seeing each other every weekend. And he told his dad and the would-be visiting friend about me. 4
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