gabriel345 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 4 yrs relationship, three months of BU, one month NC. I came back, sort of asked him what happened and later on did the same thing everybody does. After that we kept meeting to talk, either by me or him. Then when I thought all hope was lost, we agreed on a date. We never went because a few misunderstandings we had. Later we met, he asked me what I wanted with that date so I told him. Of course, it was to try things out and see where it lead us from there. He admitted that that wasn't what he wanted. We argued about other things (not date related) but it never escalated or anything. At the end he asked me out again, I told him I would call him and let him know. Since then he has put on more initiative. I called the day we were supposed to meet to let him know I was in. We had a wonderful time, he even kissed me. After that he said he would contact me before I left. He did... twice but he hardly spoke. He asked me when I was leaving, I told him but he didn't say anything back. I actually thought he was going to ask me out again but now I think I was fooled. Is there anything positive here towards a reconciliation? This is huge recap but it's pretty much it. I've been doing NC unless he reaches up to me. Should I call him and ask him to meet and ask him directly or should I keep waiting to see where it goes? I miss him very very much by now.
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