soultrain Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I am relatively new to this forum and wish to discuss my experiences over the last few years with love and the art of relationships in general. I have always tried to be nice to people that I am around including people that seem to be dating worthy and by that I mean a woman who has a job and can stand on her own two feet. It would seem though that I am defeated in my task of finding someone who will return the kindness and protectivitey. I make it a point to always be the most tender and loving person I can towards someone I am intimately involved with. While I am tender I am also firm in my affection making sure to let the other person be aware of the fact that this is an at will relationship. No person will ever feel in any way controlled by me is my point in saying that. I cannot really see what I am doing wrong as I do have alot of money and always provide substantially for the other person in every way. If anyone has any kind of advice for me it would be very much appreciated I am only 20 and could use it. I am fully ready to settle down and have a family. Long term relationships just dont seem possible anymore with the media manipulating our morals and thought processes. I need to know how do you get a girlfriend? Especially one that would be a loyal and loving wife that would not betray you and do things behind my back. everybody tries to take advantage of a truly kind gentlemen these days.
GwynethR77 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Sounds to me like the people you are going after are not really into the kind of life you are talking about the family is kind of out of date in the world of relationships these days people just want someone who will make them happy for a while and then let them go and move ont the next best thing
WillowStaica Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Sounds to me like the people you are going after are not really into the kind of life you are talking about the family is kind of out of date in the world of relationships these days people just want someone who will make them happy for a while and then let them go and move ont the next best thing No there are still people out there that will take you and have a family it is still cool otherwise how would we reproduce as a species? Families are essential for population don't you think?
WillowStaica Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 I am relatively new to this forum and wish to discuss my experiences over the last few years with love and the art of relationships in general. I have always tried to be nice to people that I am around including people that seem to be dating worthy and by that I mean a woman who has a job and can stand on her own two feet. It would seem though that I am defeated in my task of finding someone who will return the kindness and protectivitey. I make it a point to always be the most tender and loving person I can towards someone I am intimately involved with. While I am tender I am also firm in my affection making sure to let the other person be aware of the fact that this is an at will relationship. No person will ever feel in any way controlled by me is my point in saying that. I cannot really see what I am doing wrong as I do have alot of money and always provide substantially for the other person in every way. If anyone has any kind of advice for me it would be very much appreciated I am only 20 and could use it. I am fully ready to settle down and have a family. Long term relationships just dont seem possible anymore with the media manipulating our morals and thought processes. I need to know how do you get a girlfriend? Especially one that would be a loyal and loving wife that would not betray you and do things behind my back. everybody tries to take advantage of a truly kind gentlemen these days. This is something that will really help you out. Click Here for some really good dating advice.
Author soultrain Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Thanks guys really appreciate the advice. So far that is some unusual but really effective advice I am reading it now.
WillowStaica Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Thanks guys really appreciate the advice. So far that is some unusual but really effective advice I am reading it now. Not a problem at all I think that is about the best advice you can find as far as the media goes you really do have a point there they really do manipulate people from afar
GwynethR77 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 No there are still people out there that will take you and have a family it is still cool otherwise how would we reproduce as a species? Families are essential for population don't you think? No we really can just use labs and people can custom select the type of baby they will have sex is overrated anyways. Hell we should just do away with marriage entirely.!! What is the point in having all this hassle and fuss just to be with someone that wouldnt really be there for you in the end anyways.
Author soultrain Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 This is something that will really help you out. Click Here for some really good dating advice. Where did you find this stuff at I don't remember ever seeing anything like this before. Some of it seems almost unethical and immoral but it is entirely okay to manipulate chemistry a little bit to save a relationship but only if the other person agrees to it.
WillowStaica Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Where did you find this stuff at I don't remember ever seeing anything like this before. Some of it seems almost unethical and immoral but it is entirely okay to manipulate chemistry a little bit to save a relationship but only if the other person agrees to it. Not a problem friend good luck to you :)
GwynethR77 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Not a problem friend good luck to you :) Why do you still believe in the family and all of the jargon associated with it?
WillowStaica Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Because it is the best way to do it. Its life and it will never change at least for alot of generations.
Author soultrain Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Why do you still believe in the family and all of the jargon associated with it? Why would you say it was all jargon it is our instincts at play here. I know what i want deep down is to do that to procreate. Love is just a perk of procreation. You may have forgotten about all of your former emotions but you need to remember your emotional side.
GwynethR77 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Why would you say it was all jargon it is our instincts at play here. I know what i want deep down is to do that to procreate. Love is just a perk of procreation. You may have forgotten about all of your former emotions but you need to remember your emotional side. You are something else have fun with love and a family stinky diapers, angry wife go ahead live that lifestyle.
GwynethR77 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 This is something that will really help you out. Click Here for some really good dating advice. That is the worst dating advice ever and forget the family it isnt worth **** keep on going with all your so called "help"
WillowStaica Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 That is the worst dating advice ever and forget the family it isnt worth **** keep on going with all your so called "help" I honestly think that you will need to stop being the opposite of helpful. Something really bad must have happened to you as a child I am guessing.
GwynethR77 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Arguing about thiws is a very pointless thing to do bottm line ins the family and love is being phased out of society. !! Like it or not you are all going to witness the destruction of the concept of love and the family. There really is nothing you can do about it so just give up already and join the fun side of life.
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