Mary Shadows Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 How do you show her you want to get to know her? How do you act around her? Eye contact?
Weezy1973 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Me too. I'm very shy, but if I like someone I will force myself to ask her out. 3
Author Mary Shadows Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 I am shy, in general, but i have my moments.. and in those moment, I straight up tell the woman I want to know her. like a bipolar pua. Do you sneak glances when you think she's not looking? How do you use non verbal clues as signs to her?
Imported Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Probably like a girl kinda. He'll be in your area/around you a lot. Look at you when you think you can't see him.....and when he's feeling bold, he'll do it when you can see him too. Maybe even try to hold your gaze. Maybe find reasons to do stuff right next to you that he could have done somewhere else, but went out of his way to instead do it near you. This could go on forever depending on the girl lol
Author Mary Shadows Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Probably like a girl kinda. He'll be in your area/around you a lot. Look at you when you think you can't see him.....and when he's feeling bold, he'll do it when you can see him too. Maybe even try to hold your gaze. Maybe find reasons to do stuff right next to you that he could have done somewhere else, but went out of his way to instead do it near you. This could go on forever depending on the girl lol Which you find yourself doing the most? What about glances? And how many times would you glance after deciding you want to get to know her or not?
somedude81 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Talking to her whenever I can but wait for opportunities when no other guys are with her. When I'm talking to her I'm trying to look for signs that she might like me. If I don't think I have a decent chance with a girl, I won't ask her out.
Author Mary Shadows Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Talking to her whenever I can but wait for opportunities when no other guys are with her. When I'm talking to her I'm trying to look for signs that she might like me. If I don't think I have a decent chance with a girl, I won't ask her out. What would make you think that youre not good enough or that you don't have a chance with her?
Imported Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Which you find yourself doing the most? What about glances? And how many times would you glance after deciding you want to get to know her or not? OK, I'm a guy and if a girl did what I was saying before, that would be enough for me to think she was interested enough that i may approach. If i wanted her, I'd go say hi to her and ask her if she doesn't mind talking to me for a minute or two. In your case, you're gonna have to play the guy role or wait for that shy guy to grow a pair or be really really really sure you might be interested. Seriously, when i was younger, a girl could be shoving her ass in my face or falling on my lap and I was still going.....'what could that mean'. More than one girl has walked away from me in exasperation saying, 'guys are stupid'.
Sith Apprentice Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Alcohol is the greatest wingman I've ever had. It has fallen on the grenade many times and I will do the same for it.
Author Mary Shadows Posted November 24, 2012 Author Posted November 24, 2012 OK, I'm a guy and if a girl did what I was saying before, that would be enough for me to think she was interested enough that i may approach. If i wanted her, I'd go say hi to her and ask her if she doesn't mind talking to me for a minute or two. In your case, you're gonna have to play the guy role or wait for that shy guy to grow a pair or be really really really sure you might be interested. Seriously, when i was younger, a girl could be shoving her ass in my face or falling on my lap and I was still going.....'what could that mean'. More than one girl has walked away from me in exasperation saying, 'guys are stupid'. You're right. He leaves abruptly and is at times, short in answers. It's making me feel as though he is not even wanting to be around me. It's a bit confusing.
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