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I've fallen for this girl I thought I wouldn't fall for. Ever since last week, I've felt a wonderful connection with her. I don't know if she feels the same way, but it sure feels like it.

 

The thing that worries me is that her friend told me she doesn't want to date, but I might be an exception.

 

Also, she doesn't really text much, but I see her on her phone all the time.

 

We do talk a lot when we're together, though. She seems to have a good time as well.

 

It's really hard to read her, but I really want to ask her out. What do you guys think?

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Good luck! I'm in the same situation but can't get up the nerve to ask. :(

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Ask her out, and then you will have your answer. Good luck.

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IT Geek. You should go for it! Can you tell me your story?

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IT Geek. You should go for it! Can you tell me your story?

 

In a nutshell....

 

Her:

 

  • A medical tech
  • A bit geeky (Likes SciFi, etc)
  • 39
  • Totally gorgeous - Could probably have any man she wants
  • Great personality

 

 

Me:

 

  • Senior IT Infrastructure Architect
  • A little more geeky than she is
  • 45
  • Overweight (but losing) and not very attractive based on past experiences
  • A bit introverted at first until I get to know someone

 

 

I was in an 18 year relationship that ended a couple of years ago and pretty much have no social skills on how to interact with women or ask them out. My line of thought is why would she go out with a guy like me when she could have someone MUCH better looking.

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I've fallen for this girl I thought I wouldn't fall for. Ever since last week, I've felt a wonderful connection with her. I don't know if she feels the same way, but it sure feels like it.

 

The thing that worries me is that her friend told me she doesn't want to date, but I might be an exception.

 

Also, she doesn't really text much, but I see her on her phone all the time.

 

We do talk a lot when we're together, though. She seems to have a good time as well.

 

It's really hard to read her, but I really want to ask her out. What do you guys think?

 

Dont do it! Girls that u think likes u never really do nope :(.

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