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i have been doing well the past two days since the break up today he sent a text and now i wont stop calling and texting him, i know he wont answer cause he knows itz crying and begging why is it so hard to acept that its over and his not coming back his now seeing somelse, why cant i just acept that and move on.

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I was just like u a couple of months, even a couple of days ago. When we first broke up i did all the begging all that jazz then when she msgs me saying all this stuff i ask het why not give it another try etc.. Ive asked ive pleaded, begged. Same result. Ive gotten to a point where i just dont care anymore and im over her.

 

Gotta save urself som dignity. Its hard but when u get rejected so many times u just dont care anymore.

 

In your case its normal. Its because u love him, theres nth u can do. Give it time and space. If its meant to be, he'll b back

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I was just like u a couple of months, even a couple of days ago. When we first broke up i did all the begging all that jazz then when she msgs me saying all this stuff i ask het why not give it another try etc.. Ive asked ive pleaded, begged. Same result. Ive gotten to a point where i just dont care anymore and im over her.

 

Gotta save urself som dignity. Its hard but when u get rejected so many times u just dont care anymore.

 

In your case its normal. Its because u love him, theres nth u can do. Give it time and space. If its meant to be, he'll b back

 

how do i stop with the calling? Am realy trying i stil call even when he insults me and tell me he does want me anymore that his with some else and he even started telling me that i am crazy..n if i dont call him why does he call when he knows am gona start with the begging and crying sometimes it seems like he enjoys to torture me

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Keep yourself busy, watch some movies, go out meet new people. Enjoy ur life. The single life isnt as bad as it seems.

 

He keeps calling for your attention. Ill bet you that if you dont talk to him call him for a week he will call u.

 

 

Go No contact, its for yourself to heal. He already said hes with someone else, hes not worth it... And comeon he insults u? Why in the world would u want to b with him...

 

 

What goes around comes around. He sounds like an ahole. Sorry to say

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Keep yourself busy, watch some movies, go out meet new people. Enjoy ur life. The single life isnt as bad as it seems.

 

He keeps calling for your attention. Ill bet you that if you dont talk to him call him for a week he will call u.

 

 

Go No contact, its for yourself to heal. He already said hes with someone else, hes not worth it... And comeon he insults u? Why in the world would u want to b with him...

What goes around comes around. He sounds like an ahole. Sorry to say

 

he is an ahole,i dont know why i beg him maybe cause i know he will say no or dont know why i stil do or maybe cause of my son that i want to be with him i was raised by both my parents and i feel my son deserves that maybe thats why am so obesessed with him that i beg and cry

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i agree...no contact, keep busy, hes playing with you.... toying with your emotions because some men know that is our undoing when we are under their spell. some men love it. how high will she jump??? how low can she fall?? an all that ****. dont be his puppet on a string, see it for what it is ...a power move

 

i had this one done to me, everytime after i tried breaking contact, he would flutter by just to let me know his lordly arse was still firing ****.

 

you'll get over him, you'll grow, just stay away and express your pain here and with friends

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Keep yourself busy, watch some movies, go out meet new people. Enjoy ur life. The single life isnt as bad as it seems.

 

He keeps calling for your attention. Ill bet you that if you dont talk to him call him for a week he will call u.

 

 

Go No contact, its for yourself to heal. He already said hes with someone else, hes not worth it... And comeon he insults u? Why in the world would u want to b with him...

 

 

What goes around comes around. He sounds like an ahole. Sorry to say

 

i agree...no contact, keep busy, hes playing with you.... toying with your emotions because some men know that is our undoing when we are under their spell. some men love it. how high will she jump??? how low can she fall?? an all that ****. dont be his puppet on a string, see it for what it is ...a power move

 

i had this one done to me, everytime after i tried breaking contact, he would flutter by just to let me know his lordly arse was still firing ****.

 

you'll get over him, you'll grow, just stay away and express your pain here and with friends

 

since i posted here i managed to leave him alone for two day that was the longest then today he texted then again i started calin him why is hard ignore him when he calls but i can manage for days if he does not call

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because its an addiction. just like smoking. when you quit smoking you naturally find it hard to be around other smokers, when your alone you can concentrate on other things and eventually the craving wears off.

 

except, let me tell u about being addicted to people. its harder, because women are relationship orientated by nature.

 

get well, stay away change your number get a life

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