C Don Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 What do I do? I never wanted this. I treated her bad at the start of our relationship and took her for granted because she was besotted with me. I always thought we would be together. We had a massive row last year over me not committing to her and she said things need to change or that's it. I was suffering from depression due to being un-employed and neglected her, yet again because I thought we would always be together. I was planning on getting engaged in the new year and all the rest. She dumped me yesterday saying she couldn't trust me as I've broke so many promises. She said she still loves me but she feels I've been stringing her along for years. It's not true but she doesn't want to believe me. I'm a very private person and don't like talking to friends about this type of thing, even talking anonymously on here is embarrassing. Basically, every thing reminds me of her. Half the stuff in here was bought by her. Every tv show we watched together. Everything. There's nothing that doesn't remind me of her. What do I do? I can't sleep, eat, breathe... anything. I don't know how I'm supposed to make it through the day.
Mcnulty Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 First of all, you need to give her space. The big mistake a lot of people do in your situation is to push and appear needy, so not do this. Give it a week or so, get your thoughts together, write things down. You've realized your mistakes, acknowledge them and own them. Give her time. Nightmare situuation, I know, I've been there. i wish you luck and strength.
ItxWillxGetxBetter Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 I agree with Mcnulty. You need to give her space. Do not...and I repeat do not beg, plead or whatever the case may be. Just let her be for awhile and let her figure things out. In the mean time you need to do the same. Figure out what you need to do and what your game plan is with and without her. I know it sucks right now especially on the holidays and with everything a reminder of her but it does get better. Just focus on yourself right now and figure out what you need to do to improve yourself with or with out her. GL and stay strong
Stillalive1 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Had exactly the same situation of you 2 years ago,mine didn't came back. It's sad she didn't take care about u when u were down,and it's even sad she was not supporting u but always put her needings before. I know how u exactly feel cause i was in your shoes and u were probably neglecting her cause u were focused on finding a job,am i right? Well i don't think is your fault too much,i think it's a natural process,finding a job is a priority for a man,lot of girls don't understand it.
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