Stuey141 Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 So I was dating this girl for 4 months, she was 18 and I'm 28. Everything was fantastic, laugh a minute and things were sooo good. On the wed she was round mine with holiday brochures etc, then the day after I get a text saying her ex has been in contact and she is having thought about him and it wasn't fair on me! We text for a few days and then I met her after work the week after, only to get a call when I was with her from someone saying she slept with her ex over the weekend... It was a killer. She admitted it. She continued texting me saying I was amazing, and that she made a mistake with him but doesn't think she should be in a relationship at the moment. But still would send the odd message. Asking what I wanted etc. a few days after I found out I stupidly text my ex saying I missed her. She found out and then text saying I was a lier saying I only liked her etc followed but 'I don't care though' clearly she did! I said look I have done nothing wrong, u did, u think u can do better so do it. She replied with ' now you have changed the subject' since then it's been no contact!!! I have hoped for a message every day. I have stayed strong with no contact, it's been a month today. I miss her like crazy and don't no wether to text, or carry on no contact and wait. From what I hear she isn't with her ex! I want her back but she must have feelings for him or is it her age? Help please
Chi townD Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Dude, let her go. She's only 18! She's a frickin teenager!!! She still has a lot of growing up to do! When you were able to buy your first beer she was in grade school and probably still had Barbie dolls in her room! She 18 and still immature, she need to make those mistakes that all of us made at that age. I think it's time you find someone closer to your own age that you can connect with on a more mature level. At least someone that can get into the clubs with you. Time to heal and move on, dude. Let her go so she can grow up. 1
GetHerBack Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Hey Stuey, Maybe you're not texting her the right things? You need to trigger her emotions...but you need to trigger the CORRECT ones. Prove to her that you really want to save what you have, and convince her that the relationship is important to you. I wrote a review on an awesome product that helps you with these kind of emotion-triggering texts. You can check out my in-depth review on how to create these kinds of texts here. I hope that helps.
Author Stuey141 Posted November 22, 2012 Author Posted November 22, 2012 Well I came out of a long relationship and starting seeing her straight away! I no she is young but we had so much in common it was just really good. You are prob right though, I need to move on and let her work things out herself but Jesus it's hard. She was and even said she was so happy Aswell, so confusing, guess her ex has messed her head up. Is texting a good idea? I no it's been a month but I don't want to seem desperate, I text her a few nice messages saying I understand what she is going through as been there with an ex before etc and just told her I miss her etc, but tried not to be to needy! Not sure what my next move is, or if I have one. Don't want to contact her for her to say sorry I'm with him or its not gonna happen. Would be easier to take if it was a bad relationship, so odd
movingon12 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Don't contact her, just leave her alone. If she wanted to get back together she would have let you know by now. But really a 10 year age gap at your age is a big hurdle, most people are still figuring themselves out at 18.
moveONorStay Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 She is 18, leave her alone...she is in the drama phase of her life, I'd want nothing to do with that!!!
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